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coll1964 - April 15

Well this morning I had my pg test. I can be honest and say that I had not felt pregnant so we were bracing for the worst, while secretly hoping. Typically we get the phone call around 3pm so it makes for a tense day. My dh dropped me off at home after the test, I made my lunch and went to take a shower and get ready for work and lo and behold AF decided to come early! I just can't win.
I am starting to get the feeling that I am going to die old and alone. I don't know how many more times I can do this....
I almost wish there was a concrete reason why we are infertile, it would make things a little easier to handle.
Thanks for listening. Other than Cassandra were there any other ++++'s this month? Like all of you these give me hope.


cassandra - April 15

Coll1964, Oh my god, how awful. I am soo sorry you got AF.I wish I could say something insightful to you but I'm at aloss. Infertility is terrible. Please take care of yourself. cassandra


Lynne - April 15

I'm so sorry for you Coll1964, this is a frusterating situation we find ourselves in, and it seems so out of our control. I'm starting a new round of clomid and timed intercoures, ( now that really takes the fun out of sex). AF even came early this last time so atleast my 2ww was cut 2 days short, ( it amazes me what we can be happy about these days). As cassandra said take care of your self and remember that we are always here to listen when the day seems to dark to deal with.


lindsey - April 15

I am so sorry seems like AF always comes at the wrong time. There is no doubt about it.....infertility is the pits. Do something fun with your husband to take your mind off all this stuff. Take Care!


Fortyfour - April 16

Coll 1964, I am so sorry about not being pg. Since I am older than you I feel like I can ask if you used your own eggs or donor eggs. I was 39 when I found out I had to use donors. I am not saying that you have to. just curious.


ElizabethS - April 16

Coll - I am so sorry. AF can be a real B. Take care of yourself and vent, cry and scream anytime.


coll1964 - April 20

Our email service has been down so I've not been able to check back. Thanks for all the kind words. It is so hard to go through this I am wondering how many times any of you have been through IUI or IVF. I am wondering when to call it quits ($ sure do add up fast). fortyfour these were my own eggs, 8 cell grade A (2 of the 4). I am going to talk my RE into a day 5 transfer for this next go around (they do day 3). At least I will know if we are getting to blast. Thanks again and good luck to all of you.


WantsBaby2 - April 20

I am so sorry. Infertility is so cruel. Good luck with your next attempt. I am sending lots of baby dust your way. Take care.



Fortyfour - April 21

Good luck with your next cycle. This is soooo hard to keep doing. Take care and thanks for answering.

I worked with a lady today who had a baby at 44 with her own eggs!!!!!!! I was amazed. You just never know.



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