Lili
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lili246 - November 11

Helen,
It really helps alot, thank you so much. Ok so that means waiting for 6 weeks it seems like forever.
Well the spotting comes and then goes but it's nothing bad.
Well ever since I got my period my periods where like from CD 32 to 45 not that bad like months, they were only for days but I would never know when af would show up. I kinda got an idea when I started to temp. it did help me alot, to know when I was ovulating and that stuff, so now that I got that idea it would become easier for me to know when are my most fertile days and hope that good helps me and bless me with a healthy pregnancy.
I will pray to god so he can help me, but I will do everything without stress.
My doctor told me when I told her about af never be on time she just said that if I started for the first time and my af was like that everytime then it was something normal, she sad that most womens are like that are others are very regular, so how knows I know that I can get pregnant because of my two previous pregnancies but one lady told me one day that my ovarians were very weak and weren't in the correct position and that sometimes causes the effect to get pregnant. This old lady once was a doctor and I guess she does know thats why I was going with her so that she can give me some massages in my stomach and put my ovarians in positon, but she has moved to some other place that I don't know where she left to and I don't know where to go and get that massages I do really have faith in that and I will look for some lady who can do those massages.
have you ever heard of that?
Well sister, thank you very much you have helped me alot in my questions.

Well I'm almost about to go home and take care of my baby boy so I will talk to you on monday take good care of yourself and have a great weekend.

Love you,

Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 13

Hi Lili,

I am just checking in to see how you are doing. How was your traffic class? I bet you were bored to death. I know I would be. How are you feeling? I hope you are doing fine. You have a dr.'s appointment tomorrow right? I would ask what ever questions you want. Maybe you should write them down so you will remember them better. I know when I have to go to the dr.'s I seem to draw a blank everytime even though I have a million things to ask. Did you decide to go out to dinner or was your mind mush after class? The good thing is that you got it out of the way.

I will talk to you later.

Take care of yourself and tons of blessed baby dust is heading your way.

Love ya girl,

Helen

 

lili246 - November 13

Helen,
Thanks for checking, I am feeling much better today.
I had a good day at the traffic school. The teacher was very nice and made jokes to make the class fun. The only bad thing was that I had a terrible headache that day and that day very early in the morning I woke up throwing up. Did that ever happen to you. I don't know what happen to make me do that. I got scared.
I also missed my baby boy so much and I realize that I can't live without him. He is my strength and the reason I am living for. I couldn't stop thinking about him, I missed him so much and couldn't wait to see him after class. So I did got out of that and don't have to worry about it anymore.
I had the doctor's appointment tomorrow but I had to reschedule I have another appointment that I need to go tomorrow to go see our attorney I am in the process of getting my residence card and hope that he has good news for me. I will pray alot to god so he can help us and that he can give us good news.
So I reschedule my appointment for wednesday morning. I will do what you said right all my questions down so I won't forget. I do the same when I am there with her I forget everything that I was going to ask her. So hope that I don't forget on wednesday.

I didn't go out for dinner with my two men, like I said I was not feeling so good so I decided to stay at home and rest so I did.

So how are you doing? Hows things with the family.
Hope that everyone is doing fine.

Take care sister and God bless you family as well with lots of baby dust your way.

Love, Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 14

Hi Lili,

I am glad that you are doing fine. That was great that class wasn't so bad, the teacher probably didn't want to be there either.LOL

We are all doing great here despite the common cold circling through the house. I swear the kids were never this sick until my oldest(Holly) started school this year. We are busy making plans for Thanksgiving dinner so the kids are really excited. I have been so busy running with Holly to school and her after school programs that I feel like a Turkey with my head cut off.LOL I think I am slap happy from going to much.

Remember to bring your list of questions tomorrow so you can ask the questions you want answered. I swear my lil notebook is my brain anymore. If I lost it I would be lost. I will be praying for you that all goes well and that they might have some answers for you.

Take care of yourself and your family.

((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))

I will talk to you later.

Baby dust your way,

Helen

 

lili246 - November 15

Helen,
I know when someone gets sick in the house it passes on to the other until everyone has it and that isn't good, especially for the lil kids. My son was sick two weeks ago with a cold and cough and he wasn't even able to talk good, but I took him to the doctor and he is fine now. His voice has changed..lol he sounds older now.
I went to the doctor, she said that I shoul dnot use ovulex, that I should be able to concieve on my own. She said only take my prenatals. So I will do that also I have to wait two months before I start trying again, so I will. She didn't give me any cause of the m/c she said it was too small and they weren't able to tell why, so here I am trying to think the cause but I am out it in gods hands he knows why he did it and it might have been for a good cause so I will try to relax and enjoy my son he is the best thing at the moment and I will not stress and let thinkgs happen on it's own. I know that soon I will be blessed by God with a healthy pregnancy and baby.

Well my sister take good care of yourself and hope that you kids get well soon. I will be thinking of you all.

Love and lots of hugs,,,,

~Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 16

Hi Lili,

I am glad that everything went well today for you at the doctors. I know you will keep wondering what happen it is natural. I still to this day think about what went wrong but like you said we need to put it in Gods hands. He needed a few more of our angels. We have them looking down on us with God and our prayers will be answered. You have the right attitude and you will soon be blessed. I am sorry they couldn't tell you more. I think staying away from the ovulex would be the best thing for you right now. Like you said though there are other women with successful pregnancies so who knows.

The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to try to get yourself back to normal again as far as your health goes. I know you will think of your lil one on a daily basis but ask God to guide you. God has already told you that you will be blessed again.

Thank you for the well wishes on our sickness here. I sure hope it clears soon. I know what you mean about the cold changing the kids voices my lil one(Emily) sounds like a mouse.

You take care and enjoy your men.

I will talk to you later.

Mega healthy baby dust is coming your way.

(((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))

Love you Lili,

Helen

 

gavinsmommy - November 16

Hi again Lili,

I forgot to ask how the spotting was going??

Take care,

Helen

 

lili246 - November 16

Helen,
You are right, I will relax and let my bosy resuperate from everything and hopefully in two onths I can be better and read to try again. I just know it will happen but hope that happens soon.

Thats funny about your lil one Emily that sounds like a mouse. How is she feeling, hope that everyone is feeling better. I know that the change of weather can affect everyone. Here in California it's crazy the other day it rain and then it's very hot and so on, crazy weather down here, It's starting to be cold though. Have to get ready for the cold weather and buy warm clothes for my son.

About my spotting it went away on Thursday that made 8 days, but friday, saturday and sunday and monday I get very little spotting just like one time per day when I wipe myself. The doctor said that it's normal. So I don't worry about it that much. I am going to wait for af to come do you know how long it takes for it to come after m/c. Doctor said that it will take a few more weeks but don't know how many weeks..

Love you and take good care of yourself and of your lil babies.

Love you 2, Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 16

Hi Lili,

I know what you mean about the weather changing. I live in Chicago and it is up and down here alot lately. We are unseasonably cold this year already. I am not looking forward to the colder weather coming. UHG! I am a warm weather person. The kids are still sick and Emily still sounds like a lil mouse. She has a tiny voice to begin with to go along with her tiny body but this voice is so cute. I just hope they all can start feeling better soon. I am trying everything I can think of to keep them healthy but the germs are winning so far. It seems like ever since my daughter Holly started school this year they have been sick with something.

You will be blessed soon again with another miracle. You have such a bright up beat personality with a lot of faith and hope.You will see real soon. I know the 2 months you have to wait are going to feel like forever. I felt that way when I went through it. It seemed like time stood still. You have to do what is best though. My af showed up 6 weeks after the m/c just like the dr.'s said. Yours should be on time also. You will have to keep me posted. I am glad the spotting is stopping for you. I know when I had the spotting it was a constant reminder of what had happened, I am sure you feel the same way. Then when your af starts it will be a new beginning to try again.

I will talk to you later.

Take care of yourself and your men.

((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))

Love you Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - November 16

Helen,
I am a warm weather person as well. I like the summer best and wish that we would have summer all year round..lol, well I guess we need some cold weather as well.
Hopefully your kids will feel better soon. I know it happen to my son last year he would get sick every month it seems like it and there I was at the doctors everytime. thank god he is feeling better and his voice did changed from last time he got sick and his voice is stronger even when he screams it's stonger it used to sound like a lil whistle but not any more..lol

I will relax and hopefully time will past fast and hope that I can start trying right away. I know that relaxing will help me alot. I try to keep always positive and know that god has something reserved for us, I have faith that it will happen soon and I know that my lil angel in heaven is going to send me that baby dust we need.

Today I wipe myself and notice some spotting, like you said it kills me because I start to think about what happen, hope that it goes away for good until af shows up, if it takes 6 weeks after the surgery tiday I am 2 weeks away from the surgery so I guess that I still have a month more to go? Or how does it work. if I count from 11-2-06 of my surgery when should it come?
I need some help on this it's kinda confusing?

So are you still trying and no success yet? Hope that you give me good news soon about you being pregnant. I am thinking of you sister.

take good care and take care of your babies.

Love you

!Lili lots of hugs..

 

gavinsmommy - November 17

Hi Lili,

How are you?? I believe that the dr.'s want you to have 2 cycles before you start to try again. I know it is confusing. They say to wait at least 2 months to try again so that could also be 2 months with only one cycle. I believe it takes at least 6 weeks for af to return so after she ends I believe that it would be time to try because it would be the 2 month. Gosh I hope I am not confusing you. How is your lil man doing? I am still ttc so far not lucky. I am praying along with you that we can have those healthy bfp's soon. If I confused you please let me know because sometimes I confuse myself.LOL

Well take care and I hope you are having a great day.

Mega healthy baby dust your way,

(((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))
Love ya Lili,
Helen

 

lili246 - November 17

Helen,
No you didn't confuse me it's very clear. I know that af might take up to 6 weeks for it to come and that woul dbe two two months for since the surgery. But she did mention that to waith atleast two normal periods. So that might mean that I should wait for two times on af?
Well I know it all gets confusing but I guess that is what I am going to do wait two normal af and then start trying again.
I am doing good today it's friday and I am looking foward to have a good weekend this time not like last one that I had to go to that traffic school. I will try to put my mind in something else and stop thinking about what had happen. So I am doing alright.
Don't worry your time will come soon I know and god knows how much you are looking foward to get pregnant. I will be praying for you God bless you soon!

I hope that you have a great day as well. Take Care.

Mega healthy baby dust your way as well.

(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))))))))

Love, Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 20

Hi Lili,

How was your weekend? I hope you enjoyed it. Dh and I took the kids out to a buffet this weekend and they had a blast. How are you feeling? I know the best thing you can do right now for yourself is to keep busy. I had to keep going after my loss. I even started doing hook rugs to pass the time. Keeping busy keeps the mind from wandering and playing havoc on your soul. Can you beleive Thanksgiving is only 3 days away?? Were did the year go? Do you have any plans for the big day? I hope it is full of joy and happiness for you and your family.

I just wanted to pop on to see how you were doing. I am always thinking and praying for you that all goes well.

Take care of yourself and that lovely lil family. I will talk to you later.

(((((((((( BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))

Many healthy baby dust your way!!!!

Helen

 

lili246 - November 20

Helen,
It seems that you guys had a great weekend. I love going to those buffets but haven't been into one lately. I am feeling better each day. This past weekend I went to the mall with my two men and had a good day that day, we rented some movies and had a great night. I was surprise that my baby boy was watching the moves especially this one: "LITTLE MAN" have you seen it, it's very funny and my son did enjoy it. On sunday we went to see my DH soccer team and my son loves going there because he gets to run all over the place. Thats all we did, it was good and I am starting to go out more often just so that I stop thinking about what has happen and keep my mind busy in something else.
wow thanksgiving is around the corner and time went by so fast can't believe it, we actually don't have any plans, we are just going to stay home and make some dinner, we always plan at the same day just so that things turn out good..lol
We are having thursday off but have to work on friday, so that is bad well atleast we get one day off..
So do you work?
Hows your children doing are they feeling better? Hope they are.
take good care of them and yourself.
Hoep that everything is ok and lets go catch that natural baby dust that MG has send us!

(((((((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES))))))))))

Love, Lili

 

gavinsmommy - November 20

Hi Lili,

I am so happy that you had a nice weekend. God knows you deserve it. I am sure your lil guy was running himself silly.

I have saw the movie Lil Man. I was hysterical the whole time and so was dh. Dh makes me laugh even harder when he laughs. He has a very contagious laugh. My lil guys started watching TV when they were about 2. So your lil man is right on time. Pretty soon you won't be able to peel him away from the TV.

Dh and I are having our own dinner this year too. I am really excited and looking forward to it and so are the kids. I understand about what you mean as far as planning things out. It is best just to wing it. It is more fun that way.

I don't work anymore since I had the twins. I was an RN in our local hospital before I met Dh. Right when I met him I was working for the 911 Center here in Chicago. I loved my job but every 3 days I had to work a different shift. It was impossible to find someone to care for the kids with so many different shifts. I am now enjoying being a stay at home mom.

I know what you mean about not having the day after Thanksgiving off. Dh has to work too. :( I remember when you didn't have to work the day after. I wish they would have left it that way. I guess we will both miss out on the insane sales that will be going on.

The kids are steadily getting better. I am so happy that it seems like it is easing up on them. They are totally cranky when they are sick and I can't blame them. When they are feeling great they are a lot of fun to be around and very comical to watch.

Well I am off to get Holly from school in a lil bit. I am happy you are getting better everyday. Stay busy that is the key to your sanity. You will be just fine and before you know it you will be telling all of us about your BFP>

Take care of yourself and your family.

((((((((((BIG HUGS AND EXTRA HEALTHY SICKY BABY DUST TO US)))))))))))))))))))))))) :)

Helen

 

lili246 - November 20

Helen,
Thank you very much for being here for me and checking on me. I really appreciate you friendship. I am glad I found you and together we will get through this and we both will be talking about our bfp soon.
I am happy that you get to stay with your kids at home and take care fo them yourself. I wish I could do that but I have to work.
My mom is my babysitter ever since my baby boy was born. DH and I decide that if my mom would take care of our lil one then I would work but if she wasn't willing to do that I was going to stay home and take care of him myself. But thank god that my mom is the babysitter I feel so comfortable her taking care of him. I think there is noone better to take care of the him than my mom or myself. As you can tell that she's been with him since he was born he is so attached to my mom which I am glad. My boy has been the light of the house and we thank god for having him here with us. He makes us happy on whatever he does because he is our lil baby boy that doesn't know from right to wrong. Until he gets alittle older. My parents are so happy to have him at home and you can imagine how much they are thankful.
I know what you mean about the kids when they get sick they get cranky and everything seem to bother them.
wow you had very interesting jobs! But theres nothing better that to stay at home and take care of your kids.

So hows everything coming along are you still trying to concieve at this point? I wonder why it's taking long, or are you just relaxing? But we get pregnant at the same time and talk about our pregnancy symptoms..

I am still waiting for my period to come which don't have an idea of when it will show up. Hope that soon. It seems forever.
hey do you know whats the best time to start BD? I don't want to make my DH feel that I don't want to be with him, but I am not sure when I can start BD, I don't want it to do it soon and then cause an infection since my surgery has been for only 19 days ago. The doctor did tell me that I can use condoms while waiting for those two months but she didn't specify how long to wait before having sexual intercouse. Well hope that you can give me some advice.

I know that we are going to miss those huge sales the day after thanksgiving but hopefully we get off early that day and go out shopping for christmas, or we also can do that on saturday but I know that the big deals are friday very early in the morning.. But o well.

It's amazing that time goes by so fast, and christmas is coming soon, i wish that we can get the best christmas ever....bfp.

Lets pray for eachother.

love you so much even though I don't know you by person but I appreciate you being here for me.

Love you so much!!

((((((((((((BIG HUGS AND EXTRA HEALTHY STICKY BABY DUST TO US)))))))))))))))))))))))

~Lili

 

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