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Girls,
I am confussed about my temps can anyone help me:

Well I don't have much to say aswell. I don't know if I did O yet or not. My temps. on saturday were 97.5 and on sunday they were 97.3 and I tested again and come with 98.2 so what do you think, same thing happen today I tested and got 97.5 then tested again and got 98.1. UGH I hate when this happens I don't know what to do. I do think that on my opk I think that I got a + because saturday and sunday the second line was very fainted that youc ould barely see and that might be good, what do you think I am confuse and don't know what to do. Maybe O might come later because my period was longer this time.. UGH don't even know what to do I will keep taking my temps and hope that I O soon. The bad thing was that last week I bd almost every day and if I O this week that means thet I will miss those fertile days.

Thanks

Love Lili

Well girls, af came today. I hate having all those signs, and nothing. I have never had high temps like that, I thought for sure this would be it. Oh well if we dont get preg before our vacation, I have a re appt on may 7th to get IUI started for that month. Well if I dont get preg before vacation, I wont have to worry about being sick or not being able to ride rides. I think I'm going to relax and not think about ttc so much for the next few months until after vacation, to see if that helps. I'm going to take geritol and drink green tea and just let it happen. It's all in God's hands and I know He will do it for me, I just dont know when??

caretta32, sorry about the bfn, I hope the beta will surprize you. Was this your first IUI? I'm going to do my 2nd one in May.

Prayers and baby dust
Love Renee
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Hi everyone. Skiing was the worst. I have never been and I think that was my first and last time. I couldnt handle the cold weather. It was miserable. Oh well I will just stick to the beach! LOL.

Renee- sorry to hear about AF. It sucks to have so many symptoms and get that BFN. UHHH. My temps were (what I thought) triphasic last cycle and BFN for me. Sometimes these temps get so aggrevating. I am glad you are staying positive though. You have that IUI to look forward to. Where are you going on vacation?

Lili~ So are you still using OPKs? You didnt get a positive on one yet? I would go with my first temp of the morning and count that one. You should keep bding every other day just to make sure.

Ange~ How are you? How is the thyroid? Are you going to ttc this month or wait for results?

Butterfly~ Did you temps confirm O yet?

Well ladies my Beta was a BFN!! AF is not here yet but I am waiting :( . I am waiting for my ovulex to arrive sometime today or tomorrow! My Re wants to right to IVF now...only we cant afford it. My RE suggested fiancing that the clinic offers, DH said no way! Oh well it is what it is! As soon as AF gets here I am going to start charting my temps!

Jade,
yes I am still testing, I though that I had got a + on friday because it dark but no as dark as the control line, so I guess that I haven't O yet because of my temps, they are still with 97.9.

Why do you girls think that might of happen, on friday I got a dark test line but like I said not as dark as the control line then saturday, sunday and monday they got lighter, I can see the test line but it got lighter. What might of happen, any suggestions?

All this seems so confusing and I hope that I can O soon. I guess that I am going back to my long 36 day cycle, so that might be that I should be O by cd 26 to 28, on my fertility friend chart it says that I might be O around this friday so I hope that is right and I can go back tonormal because I've been confuse all this time, those opk's get confusing at times.
I was just hoping that I would get a cycle like last month's of a CD 32. But I guess not!!
I am bd'ing everyother day until I have a confirm O day. I want to be covered just in case becuase I am not too sure when O might be happening.

Thanks for your support!! :)

Love Lili

Have a great day!!

Caretta~sorry to hear about your beta being neg. I had 4 iui all neg so I know how you feel. Why would you say the next step is ivf? Have you done all your test to see if that is your only option.

Jade~ I think the thyroid is good I haven't gotten a call yet to say otherwise. We are ttc this month keep our fingers crossed. I agree with you on the sking thing I hate it. Everyone around me loves it. I think it is a height thing?

Renee~ Sorry to hear about af? So are you not going ttc until after your holiday.

Lili~ Your temps seem really up and down. Good you are still bd at least every second day incase you haven't O.

I have been sick with fever since sunday night. My daughter was up most of last night. So we are all home. I hope to be better tomorrow talk to you all later.

Ange,
Hope you and everyone in your family feels better! Get some rest!

Love Lili

Ange: the RE wants to do IVF, I would prefer one more IUI, I still have so much of the drugs lefet over and my insurance covers unlimited IUIs but only give $5,000 once for IVF. I will schedule a meeting with the RE and talk to her.

Jade, Thank for your support. I think this next cycle, I might not chart my temps after I O, so I dont get exceited and then have nothing! I'm going on a disney criuse.

Caretta32, Sorry about the bfn. Did you do infectables or clomid? At my re the fiancing is very good, the interest is only 1 or 1 1/2%. It's though visa, I think?? Do you have any kids? I think that if thats what you would need to do, that monthly payment, would be well worth it. I have two people I work with that did IVF, and it worked the first time. Good luck, I'm praying for you. You have awsome insurane to do unlimtied IUI, my insurance covers nothing. So how much will you have to pay for the IVF? In Nebr. IUI are 1000-1500 and IVF are 10,000.

Ange, hope you get feeling better. Your in my prayers. I will still keep ttc until vacation and then it will be time for the 2nd IUI. I'm just not going to try as hard and maybe not take my temps after I O. I think the 2ww might go by faster and then I might not think about all the signs of preg. March will be here in a few weeks:)

Love Renee
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Renee: IUIs are about 300.00 and IVF about 15,000 without the drugs add about 1500 for drugs for both.

Thanks for the hugs

Cartta32, What drugs did you take? I think when I do the next IUI, it going to be clomid again, but I heard that injectables work better??
Love Renee
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Hi ladies ~

Jade ~ I'm sorry you had a bad time skiing! I've never skied before, but I love to snowboard. Where did you go for skiing? We are giong to Utah in March for snowboarding :) My chart did confirm O on the 15th, but my temps have been weird. I am 5 dpo and my highest temp has been 98.2. But you might remember me saying last cycle that I have low temps to begin with. I really hate this charting thing!! It's so confusing!!!!

Lili ~ I don't know enough about the opk's to give you advice on that, but I do know that you have to get three consecutive high temps to confirm O. So, maybe you are going to O later than you originally thought this cycle? Since you aren't getting reliable results from your OPK, you should BD as much as possible until you confirm O. That is the only thing I can think of!! Fertility/Infertility is so confusing and such a mystery!!! I wish I knew all the answers, b/c I would give us all a BFP! :)

Ange ~ I hope you and your family feel better soon!

Renee ~ Thank you for your support and encouraging words. It means so much to me!!!!!

Caretta ~ I am sorry to hear about your BFN! I hope everything works out for you and your family. I am praying for you!

I am praying hard for all of us!!!!! Love and Babydust!!!
Butterfly

Okay. I am thinking AF is right around the corner for me. Unfortunately it is 6 days early. I noticed last night in my cm I had a couple streaks of pinkish blood. It wasnt really red though. Today it is more brownish. Now I really have to look for it but it is definitely there. Last time on the clomid I had a few days of brownish 3 or so days before AF. So if this is the case it is not good news bc it could be a LP deficiency, right? Maybe I am overanalyzing. I dont have any cramping yet though. UHHHH.

Lili~ I have read that sometimes stress can cause you to O later. Maybe your body was ready to O but changed its mind. So it might happen soon. That could be why you had the almost dark line. Stay positive. It will happen!

Renee~ Yeah, charting can be so confusing. My temps this month are lower so far than last but I am only 8 dpo. started off at 98.3 then 2 days ago went to 98.6. so who knows. Last cycle it was 98.9. But the month I got a bfp my temps werent really high. SO who knows. But I did see some spotting ( if thats what I should call it) today so AF may come sooner than it should. UHH.

Butterfly ~ We went skiing in WV. Snowshoe. It was miserable. NEVER AGAIN......Glad you confirmed O'd.

Ange~So I am glad you are going to TTC this month. I think this may be your month.....

Caretta~ Sorry about the BFN. I hope the ovulex will work for you.

Renee: I was on follistim injectables at 150cc for 7 days. this IUI was kinda screwed up b/c no u/s on day 3 because office was not open, had to go to sister office for bw. RE had no idea if follicales were new or left over from previous IUI.

Butterfly: thanks it helps :) It means so much to me.

Butterly and Jade,
I am keeping the faith. Thank for you help I really appreciate it.

Jade,
That might of been the reason stressing doesn't help in anything and just ruins everything. I had a very fainted line yesturday and today I tested this morning and it came back alittle darker then yesturday so I guess or I hope that i becomes darker and finally get that +. I will relax and take all that stress away. I will take it easy and enjoy bd everysecond day just to make sure I have that Sperm inside so when I O I will be all taken care of. Don't you think?
I will take it easy and relax. From what my fertilityf riend chart says I should be O by the end of the week so if that is right I should be getting close. I am praying for that!

Have a great evening!

Love Lili

Jade, could that be implantaion spotting, It seems to early for af since you O late?? Did you call your Re? They sound like they are helpful, maybe they can do a test to see what the spotting is from?? Good luck. What was the name of that drug? I'm praying for you.

Caretta32, thanks for the info. Have you though about trying a new re? I went for a 2nd opition and I'm so glad I did.

Lili, what was you temps today. Hope you O this week.

Prayer for all of you.
Love Renee
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