well! i can't tell you how out of sorts i am!!!!! i went in for my test today and got a BFN!! they left it on my cell phone and told me to call if i had any questions!? so, i called. "any way this could be wrong?" "unfortunately, no." "could you explain the math to me? it just never added up why i should come in so early for a p/g test. even with a day 6 blast, it's only been 5 days since the transfer. that makes a total of 11 days." "please hold while i check your chart." (me, on hold, sobbing) "um, i'm very sorry for the confusion, but you shouldn't have come in today. your pregnancy test should be this friday. nine days post transfer. you should continue your medication and we'll see you friday. but you should brace yourself because i don't think the outcome will be any different."
can you believe them!!!??!? urgh! so, i'll let you know friday how it went. i'm sure hoping they're wrong 'cause this is most likely our last chance. ($$$) -pj
Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
That is cruel.. and v. insensitve to say to not get your hopes up.. you'll probably get a neg. on Friday as well.. no way.. if you were early.. you could still very well have a positive on Friday.. so stay positive... let us know how it goes!!!
37 yrs. old, DH is 39 -- TTC for a year and a half.. One blocked tube. Completed two IUI's (both on 1050 iu's of Gonal-F). BFP Sept. 28. Annabel born on June 7th - 1 day after my official due date!!
PJ, You would think that they would be more careful about stuff like that! It's their job! You still could get a positive though.....don't give up hope! I will say prayers for you!
38 yrs. DH is 31 yrs. Married November 2002. No children. TTC since the honeymoon. Infertility treatments 2 yrs. 7 failed IUIs. 3 cancelled IVFs due to poor response to meds. Poor ovarian reserve. DH has male factors. Chicago, IL Presently looking into adoption!
37, unexplained infertility (no M or F factors), TTC for 1 yr, 3 failed cycles of Clomid 50 mg + IUI, 2 failed cycles of 5 mg Femara + Gonal-f + IUI, having extreme difficulty coping, esp. with all the blissfully new moms around me
PJ, That is unbelievable. I am so sorry that you went through this but there are so many people hoping and praying for you....anxious to read your update and hoping SO MUCH that it is great news. Baby dust, Karen
39 years old. Divorced at 26, 2 teenage daughters from that marriage. 3 devastating miscarriages. B/G twins born 1/23/06 after IVF at 29 weeks, 4 days.
32 yr old with 36 yr old dh been married 4 years, I. First IVFw/ICSI scheduled January 2006..... BFP on Feb 6, 2006. Due October 14th...It's TWINS!!!!! Babies arrived 14 weeks premature, boy 1lb 11 ounces and girl 1 lb 9 ounces
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It's their job! You still could get a positive though.....don't give up hope! I will say prayers for you! 