Hi, all. I'm feeling real depressed tonight and home alone, so figured I'd post here. Found out today I'm not pregnant (starting to get my period) and really thought I was this month. Also, mom just told me that she had a mammogram done, and they found something on her right breast. She has to go back in for further evaluation. So much bad has happened lately and I'm really starting to get down. Cousin had a miscarriage last week. Another cousin's premi-newborn has been in & out of the hospital not doing very well. Uncle's wife died 2-weeks ago. Now today....trying to find the positive side is getting hard. Normally I'm an optimistic person.
Well bad news usually comes in threes and you have had 5. Thats too much for anyone. I am sorry for the neg test. My home test came back neg and I do blood test tomorrow. I do not feel hopeful at all. Rest some. I hope all is well with your mom.
Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
Tigger.... these feeling seem to be going around... I'm really sorry that things aren't going well right now. Mother Theresa said once... I know God doesn't put on me more than I can bear... I just wish he didn't trust me so much...... hang in there... the sun will shine again and you'll learn that it has been within you all along!!! hugs to all of you!!!!
Age:35, DH-38, Married- 1 1/2 years. TTC entire time! 1st m/c Jan 2001 - unknown reason; 2nd m/c feb 2005 - chromosomal defects; got pg w/ clomid last time; waiting for new cycle and will do endometrial biopsy; fertility diagnosis- Low Morphology
Tigger, I have found that all these fertility drugs just compound the depressed feelings that we are already going through. I am sorry you have had such a horrible few weeks.......not much fun. Just know that you WILL feel back to your old self sometime soon again, I hope it comes soon for you.
38 yrs. DH is 31 yrs. Married November 2002. No children. TTC since the honeymoon. Infertility treatments 2 yrs. 7 failed IUIs. 3 cancelled IVFs due to poor response to meds. Poor ovarian reserve. DH has male factors. Chicago, IL Presently looking into adoption!
Hang in there! It will happen. Patience is a virtue! I am waiting as well, I just had a miscarriage. God will bless you with a beautiful baby somday! I know it is hard to wait!!
Kathleen.... I m so sorry about your miscarriage. :'( That is sooooooo painful and hard to go through. I had one at 8 weeks and faked like I was okay because it just happened to be around the holidays. I was dying inside. I got so tired of people telling me.... don't worry it will happen again for you. I guess in this infertility mountain that we are forced to climb.... it is another hurdle that must be endured.....
tiggerpounce I am sorry you are going through so much right now with your family and not being pregnant! I hope everything turns out ok with your mom as I am sure it will.
Kathleen- sorry about your miscarriage, I just had my second one March 2nd and it is not easy, I just started my cycle so we can start trying again this month good luck to you
35 yrs old, dh is 38,married for 5 years on May 20th. have been ttc for 3 years, 3 miscarriages diagnosed with homo MTHFR and factor II mutation, trying on our own, did have one IUI but failed. BFP 7-21 05
Tiggerpounce, I am so sorry you are not feeling well. It always seems like when it rains it pours. Hang in there. I hope in all areas of you family things turn around soon. I will say a little prayer for you!
33 years old, DH 34, married 9 years, one DD-5 years old concieved naturally after 2 years TTC, TTC for 2 years for #2, Clomid for 5 months, IUI 4 times with Gonal-F (2 canceled, 2 failed), 1st IVF in August, BFP 9/5/05, Due Date May 17, 2006, DS born May 8, 2006
Good luck oneandonlyme trying. Have fun with it! It seems like the infertility side makes the making love part go out the door and it just becomes......we gotta make a baby. I am really sorry about your miscarriage. Make sure you take time for yourself to heal!
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