Hie girls i hope u all r doing well,ok, i have started bleeding bad news, well theres nothing i can do, but i will stay with u all in this journey, so all the best of luck.
well marina im doing pretty good just really tied. Thank you all for the happy birthdays for dd. Shes so excited about her b-day its soo funny. and her party is not until saturday. Sjes happy and i want t cry. They grow up so fast everyone so cherish them. Even though im getting ready for another my first baby is growing up. It dosnt help that dh is a big man so dd is big for her age as it is. Dh is 6'1" and over 200lbs. He spends alot of time in the gym. DD is 3 today weighing in at 38lbs and 38" tall she wears a 4-5 in girls, i cant even shop in the toddler section for her. She has been in pre-school since age 2 due to he rapid cognitive development. She knows allher colors, letters, numbers, and has a vast vocab, all from a child that they told me had downs syndrome. So not only is she 3 yrs old today she has the developmental age of a 5yr old according to dr's. However i did get lucky with her in some departments. She started pottying on the toilet at 11mths, and by 15 mths was completely out of diapers so at least i wont have two in diapers. That and she will be a big helper with the new baby. Its so weird when she talks to the baby which she does alot the baby reacts so much she doesnt sit still. Shes so excited about being a BIG sister. The only down side to my 3 yr old is she still does not sleep through the night. Well enough venting i will talk to all later.
Hie jenny thanks for ur concern, am thinking of trying next in jun and in the mean while am thinking of ovulex i dont know if its safe to buy over the nett , because i have never bought any thing over the net, has any one used ovulex, how r u where r u know ?
Luky,dear I'm very sorry! I'd like to give you an advise,if I might.I've noticed from your posts your clinic is VERY different from what you normally see in US.I'm not sure,may be in Europe they do it different way,but even so,it doesn't make sence to me.Ask anybody at this forum,or dirrectly dr.Jacobs,in US nobody transfers 3 cell embrio.B/c on a day 3,embrio should have at least 8 cells,othervise it's not good for the transfer.Belive me,I've spent tons of time reserching net about every detail.Before you do your next step,ASK them those questions-why they in a 1st place took immature foliculs(17-19in size,fot IVF they should be 20-21) without trigger shot 36 hours before ovulation?From what I know,nobody does that in US doing IVF.Why, in their opinion, it's ok to transfer 3 cell embrio? And, honey, I think you can't start a new cycle in Jan.,its too early,your body should go at least one more month trough natural cycle without meds. And no,I woudn't buy meds over the internet(or leftover meds from somebody,you don't know people and how easy inject something different in a vial instead a drug that you need-and nobody responsible)But this is just my opinion,I wish you only the best. So,dear,I just want to say,dont jump right away in a new cycle,you should analize with your doc what went wrong and go from there.
Beth,you are the live proof of all opposite facts we know !Now,if you dont mind me asking you that.When I went to my ob,they gave me whole bunch of literature on the future testing for 1st trimester.We have to decide wether do or not this tests for Down syndrom.My DH doesn't want to,b/c there is no accuracy in this test,so there in no sence to do this and worry.What do you say about this?I know the answer already-look at my dd...
I know this question was not referenced to me but I wanted to give you my opinion...I only did it to have a chance to see the baby in between that first 4 week appointment...I had been so used to seeing the baby just about every other week that a 4 week interval just about killed me so I went in to have the ist trimester screening....It did not make a difference on accuracy that would not have changed our minds about our son...Just knowing my chances in the future if I possibly have another one were satisfying enough...I have like a 1 in 10,000 chance based on his measurements of having a baby with down syndrome...They also recheck with the 18 week anamoly and your prenatal blood testing for the down syndrome, trisomy 13 and trisomy 18...So as I said I just used it as a reason to see the baby and make sure all was okay still...Talk to you later.
I personally dont trust the tests. ith my first daughter they told me she had downs syndrom. The first trmester screening and the triple screen both said it. The oly test left that i could of done was a amnio which i refused. I would not take the chance of a m/c from the test when im a high risk fo a m/c. Dh nd i knew that no matter what if she had downs or not we were keeping her. I looked at it like if i lost 3 children proir t her and then had a downs child then i was ment to have a downs child. My dd has nothing wrong with her. She actually tests high for her age, she very advance.We had it with this pregnancy just as a joke to us we wanted to see what they would say. they said everything thing is okay but i didnt need there test to know that. Every pregnancy that i lost i always had a a bad feeling from the beginning.
Jenny,Beth, thank you for the info,I've been reading too about these tests and the more I read,the more I'm sure I will not do this,even it was very tempting,like Jenny said ,to look at the baby on 4-D u/s.But my DH doesn't even want to hear about that,he is like you Beth-we are keeping it no matter what.And what's ironical,my son came from school with the homework(they learn about genetics and chromosoms at life science) to anilize the test results from a couple of PG women and culculate the % of chance all these genetic decises...On tv yesterday (can't remember what it was-either CSI New York or something else-we wath all these shows) they were talking about Gay gene they found,so it's genetic, and you can find out before baby is born-isn't this bizare?! So,anyway,I decided,We are not taking the tests.Thanks for your input!
Marina - hey you how is everything going...I am soo happy to be able to be back on here and have some stress relief and talk and catch up with you all...Talk to you soon.
hi Jenny and all girls! Wow,what a week!I didn't realize how this forum was important to me until it quit working! I really missed all of you,guys! how is eveybody?!Jenny are you feeling ok? Beth,are you still with us?Did they rescedule c-section? I'm doing fine ,see my ob on 23rd,other than that-no changes.
Everything is great on my homefront...Baby is getting bigger and we go for a u/s for weight and growth on the 28th of this month and then our 2 week follow up on the 29th...Other then a lot of moving around and getting bigger not much more going on here.
I am on day 8 and since day 4 Ive had menstrual like cramps and brownish pinkish spotting i took a hpt today even though i wasnt suppose to and it was NEGATIVE iam really down and im also taking the progesterone ingections could there still be a chance and has anyone had those symptons please let me know....
Hi tiffwants, I think you took test too early,when I was on my 2ww,I did the same thing-on day 8th and it came negative.Then I did it again,in 2 days,right before my official HCG and it came back faint positive.So,it's too early.Check in 2 days or wait for your HCG because you can still be pregnant,even if hpt shows negative-they are not that sensitive,only blood work can give you a clear picture.Good luck!
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!Now,if you dont mind me asking you that.When I went to my ob,they gave me whole bunch of literature on the future testing for 1st trimester.We have to decide wether do or not this tests for Down syndrom.My DH doesn't want to,b/c there is no accuracy in this test,so there in no sence to do this and worry.What do you say about this?I know the answer already-look at my dd... 
