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Debie
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So I take a bow
« on: 05/09/05, 06:29 »
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Hey all I hope you had a great time on Mother's Day.  I didn't want to ruin it for you and thought I should wait until today to let you all know that we lost our BabyLove.

My suspicions were cruelly confirmed yesterday morning when I woke up to a red flow and clotting.  When I saw dr this am he sadly confirmed what I already knew.  We have a D&C scheduled for tomorrow at 10am and I won't be going to work until next week.

I love you all and I sincerely wish you the best until you hold your little angels in your arms.  Dr suggested to take two to three months before ttc again.  I had fallen in love so much with him/her I feel there's a huge void in me physically and emotionally. 

So ladies I'm checking out, hopefully for now only, and trust that I will be able to post here much sooner that late.  Best of luck for the Thursday crew and for everyone in the struggle.

Love

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35 yrs.  Married 3years.  BFP on 25/04/2005.  ~~AngelBaby 6 May 2005~~.  D&C and Laparoscopy: stage 2 Endometriosis 12/05/2005.  BFP 29 June = Blighted Ovum - d&c August 2005.  Conceived 11 March 2006 and had beautiful and healthly BabyGirl at 33wks on 10/10/06.
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« Reply #1 on: 05/09/05, 09:42 »
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Debie

I am SO sorry. Words can't convey it. Take good care of yourself.

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36 years old. Married for 17 years. 1 son, 7 years old, conceived w/ ICSI. 2nd IVF w/ ICSI in June=No Fertilization. August cycle cancelled for poor response. Considering options.
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« Reply #2 on: 05/09/05, 12:05 »
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Debie,

I am so sorry for your loss.  You and your DH will certainly be in my prayers. 

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« Reply #3 on: 05/09/05, 14:39 »
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Debie, my heart goes out to you and DH.  To come so far and to have something like this happen is just terrible.  You are in my prayers.
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Me and DH are 35...married 2 yrs...TTC for 2 yrs...m/c in Dec 2003...DH has mild sperm factor...started clomid 100mg for 1st IUI...BFP 4/27/05...Taylor Denise was born 12/30/05
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« Reply #4 on: 05/09/05, 15:13 »
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Deb,

We are all here for you anytime. I am so sorry you and your husband have to go through this....

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Married 10 years, 38yo, husband 36. Been on IVF for 10 years. Have had 9 IVF cycles with one pregnancy resulting in adorable daughter who is now 5yo. BFP April 05 - Due January 06 MF infertility. Live - Melbourne Australia
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Deb,

I am so very sorry for your loss.  I understand completely how you feel.  I had my first m/c on Mother's Day 2001.  Not that any day is a good day to m/c on, but mother's day is really sucky.  I know that your angel baby will forever watch over you and protect you.  I always ask my special guardian baby angels to watch over me, as I have 3 of them   I know that they are always w/ me. Please give yourself  time to grieve.  Please also know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.  Take Care and know that you will make it through this difficult time.
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DH and I are 36. Married 10 yrs.  p/g  4/01 m/c @ 9 wks.  DH dx w/ severe mf - told best chance of conception was IVF.  1st IVF 5/02, m/c @ 7 wks. FET 5/03 conceived triplets and lost triplet at 11 wks. gestation.  Had B/G twins @ 32wks.  ++ p/g 5/5/05 conceived nat. much to our surprise
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« Reply #6 on: 05/09/05, 23:10 »
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I am sorry Deb.  I know there is nothing to say to make you feel better. Only time will do that.  It is such a shock to go through ta m/c.  Be gentle with yourself and keep
in touch with us.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52  married 4 years,  TTC 4 years with this hubby,  14 years with first hubby,  One adopted daughter,  2nd ivf done,  1st one pg with m/c,  second no pg.  Uses egg Donor.  PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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