Latina, I hate the things fertiles say sometimes. I have a friend who is a teacher. Before she had kids, she told me she planned to have them in December. That way, she gets her 6 month paid maternity leave from Jan-June, then gets a bonus 2 months of July and August (with full pay) while school is out. Can you believe she has two kids and both were born in December?? It's so unfair how its so easy for some people!
44 - Take your time. Like you said, you will know when you are ready.
Good luck to both of you and baby dust all around!
37, unexplained infertility (no M or F factors), TTC for 1 yr, 3 failed cycles of Clomid 50 mg + IUI, 2 failed cycles of 5 mg Femara + Gonal-f + IUI, having extreme difficulty coping, esp. with all the blissfully new moms around me
Silli Kitti, It's amazing how some things just come to people. I'm glad I am not the only one with friends like that! Unbelievable.
Latina, I can't believe your friend would be so candid with you about all of this. Does she know what you are going through? I would tell her it was really insensitive to share all that with you. I think that a few women really love to twist that knife a little.
38 yrs. DH is 31 yrs. Married November 2002. No children. TTC since the honeymoon. Infertility treatments 2 yrs. 7 failed IUIs. 3 cancelled IVFs due to poor response to meds. Poor ovarian reserve. DH has male factors. Chicago, IL Presently looking into adoption!
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