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« Reply #45 on: 04/20/06, 15:11 » |
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How does a pregnancy after a tubaligation work? I had my tubes tied after my ceserean. It's been about 2 and 1/2 years ago. I am losing my mind because I think it may be possible that I am pregnant, but I really don't want it to be. Could someone please explain to me how it works?
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« Reply #46 on: 04/23/06, 18:17 » |
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I'M 37YEARSOLD I HAVE KID THAT ARE 17YEARSOLD AND 16 YEARSOLD AND 14 YEARSOLD AND WHEN I WAS 24YEARSOLD I MY TUBES TIRED AND NOW I'M WITH A GUY THAT WANT TO HAVE A BABY I TOLD HIM IT WOULD BE FINE BUT HAVE CHECK INTO A REVERSAL SO THE QUESTION AFTER 14 YEARS WILL HAVE TO GET A REVERSAL IF ONLY GOT THEM TIRED AND CAN LEAD ME TO THE PERSON WHO CAN ANSWER THE QUESTIONFOR MEOK
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« Reply #47 on: 05/01/06, 17:08 » |
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I had my tubes tied about 10 years ago and now I am married to a wonderful man. He doesnt have kids and I want to have his child. Are there any other options besides tubal reversal?
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« Reply #48 on: 05/09/06, 01:24 » |
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I was wondering if any of you ladies had your tubes reversed? And if so did you acually have a child or pregnant now?? . . I had my tubes tied when I was 20 years old. . .Everyone was pressuring my husband and I to get it done. . .I have been kicking myseld everyday ever since I went through with it. I was wondering does anyone know where you can get your tubes tied that has a high sucess rate? If so can you get back to me? We have been wanting anouther child for the past 5 years and I was hoping maybe I would be one of those people who got pregnant without having them reversed but no luck. . .I am thinking this is the last thing I can do.
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« Reply #49 on: 05/09/06, 08:38 » |
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AlleyKgirl: You can get your tubes reversed for a good price in Mexico. Log unto www.riobravoreversal.com. I think that someone mentioned this website in one of the earlier posts. My cousin got her tubes reversed in Mexico, and within a few months she had already conceived.
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« Reply #50 on: 05/12/06, 23:36 » |
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Please pray for me, because I'll be praying for you.
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« Reply #51 on: 05/19/06, 04:18 » |
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I am now only 26 years old. My youngest daughter is 2, and now I am starting to wonder if I made the right decision in getting a tubal. See... my 2 year old is the yougest of four child, and my last two are 13 months apart to the day. At the time I was kind of feeling like it wasn't fair to have been pregnant for so long. But, now that I haven't been pregnant for awhile.... I am really missing it. So, all I have to say after all of that is, really think before you make make your decision. I really let my mom influece me, and I really wish I wouldn't have.
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« Reply #52 on: 05/23/06, 09:43 » |
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Its so nice to know there are other's out there that are feeling the same way I do. I am 29 yrs old and my youngest child is going to be 9 this year. I still feel there is something missing in my life. I am with a wonderful man that has no children of his own. We are trying to save money to have my tubal reversal. Anyone have any good advise about who to go to or what else I can do other then spend lots of $$$$$ to be able to have another child?
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« Reply #53 on: 06/07/06, 17:48 » |
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hi I had my tubes tied cut burned whatever you want to call it about 4 1/2 years ago. I am 32 and have been feeling a little different with my body. I have had my cycle normal but this month it is crazy How can I know that i am not pregnant or could it be premenapause please respond if you know what I am going through. I feel bloated dont want to eat and have been really tired .  
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« Reply #54 on: 10/20/06, 08:47 » |
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Quote from: jacqueline on 02/23/06, 11:31
HI! GOD BLESS YOU ALL. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I ,TO HAD A TUBAL LIGATION DONE AFTER MY FOURTH CHILD. I'M MARRIED TO MY SOUL MATE , HAD 2 BOYS AND 2 GIRLS TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 9 YEARS NOW. IM 28 , MY HUSAND 29. WE THOUGHT OUR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE UNTILL I GOT REALLY DIPRESSED, DEEP INSIDE I FELT SAD AND ANGRY THAT I CAN NOT HAVE ANY MOR CHILDREN. I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING W\ THIS DIPRESSION FOR A GOOD 4 YEARS AND COUNTING . FINALLY I JUST HAD TO GIVE IT TO MY LORD , I CAN NOT CARRY IT ON MY SHOULDERS ANYMORE. I ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING THE CONTROL OUT OF HIS HANDS AND TAKING IT IN TO MY OWN HANDS IN DETERMININIG HOW MANY KIDS I WOULD HAVE. I WAS WRONG . THE LORD KNOWS HOW MANY CHILDREN HE WANTS ME TO HAVE. I GAVE BACK THE CONTROL TO HIM. FOR MY HUSBAND AND MYSELF WE SO DESIRE ANOTHER BABY. I KNOW GOD GIVES US THE DESIRES OF OUR HEARTS. IM BELEIVING IN A MIRACLE BECAUSE I KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT MY GOD IS A GOD FULL OF MIRACLES..... SO I SPEAK TO THAT MOUNTAIN FOR ALL YOU WOMEN WHO ARE ALSO DESIRING A BABY I SPEAK MIRACLES AND BLESSINGS IN YOUR LIFE.. GOD SAYS ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE .NOTHING NO, NOTHING IS TO IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD . WHAT IS IMPOSSSIBLE TO MEN IS POSSIBLE TO GOD. SO TO THOSE WHO ASK ''COULD I BE / OR GET PREGNANT AFTER A TUBAL''? AS FAR AS GOD'S CONCERN ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THERE IS HOPE LADIES. ITS ONLY A PRAYER AWAY. THE LORD IS A FORGIVING AND MERCIFUL GOD ..... THANK GOD HE IS...... SO I WILL CONTINUE TO BELIEVE IN THE MIRACLE GOD HAS ALREADY ORDAINED FOR ME.........GOD BLESS
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« Reply #55 on: 11/08/06, 01:01 » |
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hi everyone, i'm 23 years old i've had 3 pregnancies 1 when i was 17 i miscarried and then had a lil boy when i was 20 and a lil girl at 22 after i had my c-section with my daughter i had my tubes tied. my husband and myself thought it was for the best. since then i've had problems i have hot flashes, my periods are 10 times worse and now i'm late with all the signs of being pregnant. i've taken 2 test they both was negitive but i'm getting bigger, and my belly looks just like i did when i was with child along with at times i feel like i'm being kicked. is it really possible to get pregnant? my dr. told me i would never be able to have kids again. and my husband thought he was suppost to cut the tubes so there would be no chance. please help i'm going crazy with no one to talk to about this.
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« Reply #56 on: 01/04/07, 14:00 » |
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HI! I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I am new here and that I ,TO HAD A TUBAL LIGATION DONE AFTER MY FOURTH CHILD. I'M MARRIED TO MY SOUL MATE we Have 1 Girl (9) and 1 Boy(3).... I know I at least wanted 2 boys and 2 girls.. . I have 2 other boys (that are from a previous marriage that are older) .. my husband AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 10 YEARS NOW. IM 34 , MY HUSAND 35. WE Both THOUGHT OUR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE UNTILL I GOT REALLY DIPRESSED, DEEP INSIDE I FELT SAD AND ANGRY THAT I CAN NOT HAVE ANYMORE CHILDREN.... that i really knew i wanted to have but went threw with the Surgery anyway for Birth control.... I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING W\ THIS DIPRESSION FOR A GOOD 3 YEARS AND COUNTING . I finally found this site [link]http://www.tubal.org/ovarian_isolation.htm [/link] I ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING THE CONTROL OUT OF HIS HANDS AND TAKING IT IN TO MY OWN HANDS IN DETERMININIG HOW MANY KIDS I WOULD HAVE. I WAS WRONG . THE LORD KNOWS HOW MANY CHILDREN HE WANTS ME TO HAVE. I am trying to decide what to do now as everyone i see keeps telling me my problems are from DEPRESSION... and had i have known abotu the SIDE effects of a TL i would have never had it done.. I got the Tubal cause at the time i didnt want anymore kids and neither did my husband.... I come to realize now I do want another child mybe 2 that way we have 2 boys and 2 girls of our own.... but not sure if he does... I know and believe that my tubaligation has alot to do with what has been happening in out life and I just want it fixed... and want my life back... I have been sad and unhappy and angry.. alot and im sorry.. to all i have hurt....
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« Reply #57 on: 03/02/07, 11:04 » |
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I am new to this site and I have to say that the possitive and God believing attitudes are a blessing to me. I am having the same thing right now as Jaquline I am leaving it up to the Lord. I too had a tubaligation 6 years ago after three beautiful children. I so desperatly want to have another child. I at the time was not where I am today with my walk with the Lord and took it upon myself to try and controll how many children I would have and I regret it and have prayed for forgiveness and hope that one day soon I may be blessed with another child. In fact I have an appointment today. I am on day 41 and have not had a period but my home test was negative. I feel in my heart that I am but I'M scared of the dissapointment that may follow. Please give me lots of prayer. 
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« Reply #58 on: 03/06/07, 23:32 » |
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I am a 26yr.old with 2 beautiful little girls ages: 7 & 9 yrs. old. I just got engaged to my fiance on December 15,2006 but my wedding day would really be fulfilled if I could give him a baby. I had a tubaligation done 5yrs. ago when I thought that I wouldn't have anymore children because I had to raise those 2 by myself and I didn't want to have children by every man that I dated, so I thought that the best thing to do would be to have a tubaligation. My children ask me every day to give them a baby brother and I would if I could afford it but I can't. My life just isn't the same anymore and I have really been emotionally torn inside and out. 2 all you ladies out there and 2 the ladies messages that I have read I hope you all get what it is that you truly want and deserve cause I feel your pain. Don't give up on your ambitions.
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« Reply #59 on: 03/08/07, 14:37 » |
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hello everyone, i just wanted to share my story and my support. i had my tl 8 years ago, like some of you i was in a bad relationship and thought a tl was the best thing for me to do . i cried on the or table before they put me to sleep but went through with it because of the things that were going on in my life at the time. well 5 years ago i meet my new husband and he has no kids of his own but came in loving and accepting my two kids with open arms he has been daddy to them for 5 years now and he is all they know. my son is going to be 10 tuesday and my little girl is 8. well my husband came into the relationship knowing that i could not have any more babies put at the time loving us was enough for him.
well i always knew i wanted to have a baby for him and have talked about it for years now. we planned to go to mexico with our tax money this year and right before it was time to get them i lost my job was fired after 7 1/2 years. i was so upset because i knew this was going to ruin our chances of going to mexico.
but my husband was not going to let that stop us!!!
we got our tax money which wasn't even as much as the surgery and made or plans and or appointment and went. we had no money for our trip we had to take the bus because we couldn't afford to get there any other way and our cars are so old the would of never made it!!lol!!but we went. we stepped out on faith and knew that the lord would take care of us and get us there and back and he did. my tubes are togheter again and after my two months are up that i have to wait we are going to be able to start trying for a baby!!!the trip to mexico really put us back and we are still trying to catch back up. but sometimes you just have to make sacrifices and just step out their and do it. it took me 4 years of wanting this everyday to finally be able to get it.but its not over yet . now i hope i can get pregnant after 8 years you never know.
i just wanted to share my story and let every one know that it is possiable just don't ever give up hope!!!
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