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lis
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« Reply #15 on: 10/18/05, 14:54 » |
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Hi ladies,
I'm suppose to go on Thur. this week for my surgery and I am so nervous and scared. I'm 29 and have an 8 yr old girl and a 4 yr old boy. My husband says he wouldn't mind if we had another one, but he says that maybe it's best if I do go a get it done, we're both still kinda of like yes and no.... I keep talking my self out of having another by reminding myself how bad my 2 pregnancy were, passing out and feeling sick all day long. I also, don't want to go through the changing of the diapers and the food and child care and so on, but just to think that I can no longer have one if I do decide on one is driving me crazy I feel like I'm losing something by doing this. Can some please help ease my mind.....
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« Reply #16 on: 10/18/05, 14:55 » |
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Hi ladies,
I'm suppose to go on Thur. this week for my surgery and I am so nervous and scared. I'm 29 and have an 8 yr old girl and a 4 yr old boy. My husband says he wouldn't mind if we had another one, but he says that maybe it's best if I do go a get it done, we're both still kinda of like yes and no.... I keep talking my self out of having another by reminding myself how bad my 2 pregnancy were, passing out and feeling sick all day long. I also, don't want to go through the changing of the diapers and the food and child care and so on, but just to think that I can no longer have one if I do decide on one is driving me crazy I feel like I'm losing something by doing this. Can some please help ease my mind.....
Thanks
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LAURA D.
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« Reply #18 on: 11/29/05, 13:52 » |
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Hi Ladies,
I think I have found the right place to seek advice. I am so not alone as I read that alot of you have gone through the same mess I have. I was in a bad marriage and had my tubes tied after my 2nd son, thinking I would never have the courage to leave him. Well 6 years and a wonderful new husband later, we are discussing baby plans! My boys are 10 & 8 y.o. and I thought I was done, but this man so deserves a biological child. He is an amazing Dad to my sons and we are all lucky to have him! He was actually ok with not having one until recently. We have had ALOT of births in the family recently and I can see the look in his eyes. He is ready.
I called my OB today and I am just devastated. The procedure will cost $8,000, of which we don't exactly have lying around. I am hoping there are other ways around a reversal. If anyone has any information or advice for us, please write soon! I don't even know where to begin.
Thanks so much!
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« Reply #19 on: 12/01/05, 17:20 » |
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Hi,
Im new to this so bare with me! I'm 30 I have four kids and I just got remarried and I had my tubes tided 3 years ago. My question is, can you get pregant without have the reversal? I lactaed with my last child for a about well 4 yrs until I had my tubal> well I just noticed this morning that after all this time I am lactating again.
I have been feeling sick and I'm just not sure is it really possible?
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« Reply #20 on: 12/01/05, 17:20 » |
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Hi,
Im new to this so bare with me! I'm 30 I have four kids and I just got remarried and I had my tubes tided 3 years ago. My question is, can you get pregant without have the reversal? I lactaed with my last child for a about well 4 yrs until I had my tubal> well I just noticed this morning that after all this time I am lactating again.
I have been feeling sick and I'm just not sure is it really possible?
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tranee
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« Reply #21 on: 01/17/06, 19:38 » |
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my doctor said that your tubes can come untied anywhere between three to seven years and i was woundering if this was true because i want to have another child
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chynnadoll
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« Reply #22 on: 01/19/06, 19:48 » |
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tranee, I have heard that as well, I know someone whos tubes came untied and she conceived but she also got an abortion , but she already has five children! I heard if they don't tie them and burn them they can come untied in 3 to 7 years also....Good Luck....China
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« Reply #23 on: 01/29/06, 17:03 » |
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Hello everyone well I guess I'm not alone and everyone have similiar situations. well I also found mr. wonderful and we've been together for seven years .and after a divorce and getting my tubes tied . see the problem with me is that I didn't go to the interview I just handed my papers after delivery I didn't want to have another baby in an abusive relationship.and now we would love to become parents and I can't do this .now i feel like a did something wrong we i cant give him something as precious as a child
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magaly gerena
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« Reply #24 on: 02/07/06, 16:16 » |
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hi everyone, i had my tubes cut and burn 8 yrs ago. And now i have lot of cramps like if i have my period but nothing I'm 5 days late. I haven't gone to the the Doctor yet because I'm scare. I'm sick, dizzy, back hurts the works. Can you come out pregnant after having a tubal ligation done? Can anyone give advice please.....
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Chiquita Anderson
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« Reply #25 on: 02/16/06, 19:36 » |
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Hello, everyone I am 28 yrs old and my tubes are tyed and I want to get them untyed because I missed out on my baby life because I moved from Philadelphia to North Carolina not knowing that this is a state that rob and rap people of there right. I had to battle with NC DSS because of and out of control social worker and missed all my baby moments because my older son had a mark on his neck and now my baby is a year old I want to get out of this races town and go back to Philly, but I want to know if any one knows if it is possible to get it done and have a baby. PLEASE SEND ME SOME INFO....
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« Reply #26 on: 02/23/06, 11:31 » |
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HI! GOD BLESS YOU ALL. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I ,TO HAD A TUBAL LIGATION DONE AFTER MY FOURTH CHILD. I'M MARRIED TO MY SOUL MATE , HAD 2 BOYS AND 2 GIRLS TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 9 YEARS NOW. IM 28 , MY HUSAND 29. WE THOUGHT OUR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE UNTILL I GOT REALLY DIPRESSED, DEEP INSIDE I FELT SAD AND ANGRY THAT I CAN NOT HAVE ANY MOR CHILDREN. I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING W\ THIS DIPRESSION FOR A GOOD 4 YEARS AND COUNTING . FINALLY I JUST HAD TO GIVE IT TO MY LORD , I CAN NOT CARRY IT ON MY SHOULDERS ANYMORE. I ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING THE CONTROL OUT OF HIS HANDS AND TAKING IT IN TO MY OWN HANDS IN DETERMININIG HOW MANY KIDS I WOULD HAVE. I WAS WRONG . THE LORD KNOWS HOW MANY CHILDREN HE WANTS ME TO HAVE. I GAVE BACK THE CONTROL TO HIM. FOR MY HUSBAND AND MYSELF WE SO DESIRE ANOTHER BABY. I KNOW GOD GIVES US THE DESIRES OF OUR HEARTS. IM BELEIVING IN A MIRACLE BECAUSE I KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT MY GOD IS A GOD FULL OF MIRACLES..... SO I SPEAK TO THAT MOUNTAIN FOR ALL YOU WOMEN WHO ARE ALSO DESIRING A BABY I SPEAK MIRACLES AND BLESSINGS IN YOUR LIFE.. GOD SAYS ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE .NOTHING NO, NOTHING IS TO IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD . WHAT IS IMPOSSSIBLE TO MEN IS POSSIBLE TO GOD. SO TO THOSE WHO ASK ''COULD I BE / OR GET PREGNANT AFTER A TUBAL''? AS FAR AS GOD'S CONCERN ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THERE IS HOPE LADIES. ITS ONLY A PRAYER AWAY. THE LORD IS A FORGIVING AND MERCIFUL GOD ..... THANK GOD HE IS...... SO I WILL CONTINUE TO BELIEVE IN THE MIRACLE GOD HAS ALREADY ORDAINED FOR ME.........GOD BLESS
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Monica
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« Reply #27 on: 02/28/06, 14:14 » |
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AMEN Jacqueline!!!!!!! You are absolutely right!! Wow, what faith you have That is awesome!!
ANYTHING is possible with God, ANYTHING.....so ladies keep believing, and watch what God does  .
On another note, I heard about this tubal reversal doctor in Rio Bravo, Mexico that only charges about $2200 for his tubal reversal surgeries. He has been performing that particular surgery for awhile now, and on his website he has lots of testimonials fom his patients. His name is Dr. Roberto Perez, and Dr. Levi. You guys should check him out. He seems very reputable.
Baby Dust To You All,
Monica
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« Reply #28 on: 03/02/06, 15:57 » |
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I'M 26 YEARS OLD AND HUSBAND AND I HAN A BABY GIRL SHE HAD A INLARGE HEART THE DOCTORS FIND SOMEONE TO FIX IT BUT GOD WANTED HE SOONER THAN WE THOUGT. I RECEIVED A TUBUL BECAUSE I THOUGT IT WAS MY FAULT. SO I DIDN'T WANT HIM OR ME TO HURT AGAIN BUT WHAT I DID WAS HURT US REALLY HARD. NOW I DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR A REVERSAL NEED SOME EXTRA LOVE.
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Monica
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« Reply #29 on: 03/02/06, 16:55 » |
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Mrs. Heartbroken: I just sent a prayer up to Heaven on your behalf, and I know that God will restore back to you DOUBLE what was taken away from you & your husband. In the meantime, please check out that Doctor in Mexico that I mentioned in my post above. He is ALOT cheaper than the American tubal reversal doctors.
Also, if you go to www.blessedarrows.com, they may be able to help you as well.
Baby Dust To You & PLEASE keep the Faith!!!!!
Monica
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