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coll1964
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Well this morning I had my pg test. I can be honest and say that I had not felt pregnant so we were bracing for the worst, while secretly hoping. Typically we get the phone call around 3pm so it makes for a tense day. My dh dropped me off at home after the test, I made my lunch and went to take a shower and get ready for work and lo and behold AF decided to come early! I just can't win.
I am starting to get the feeling that I am going to die old and alone. I don't know how many more times I can do this....
I almost wish there was a concrete reason why we are infertile, it would make things a little easier to handle.
Thanks for listening. Other than Cassandra were there any other ++++'s this month? Like all of you these give me hope.
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40, DH of 11 years, TTC for 6 yrs, IUI 3x in 2004, pg on 2nd try, m/c after 8 wks. IVF Mar. 05 & April 05
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cassandra
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Coll1964, Oh my god, how awful. I am soo sorry you got AF.I wish I could say something insightful to you but I'm at aloss. Infertility is terrible. Please take care of yourself. cassandra
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33 yrs old married to dh 12 1/2 yrs. scarred fallopian tubes from laser surgery for cervical cancer cells 3rd ivf attempt in march, now pg. with b/g twins due 12/15/05
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Lynne
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I'm so sorry for you Coll1964, this is a frusterating situation we find ourselves in, and it seems so out of our control. I'm starting a new round of clomid and timed intercoures, ( now that really takes the fun out of sex). AF even came early this last time so atleast my 2ww was cut 2 days short, ( it amazes me what we can be happy about these days). As cassandra said take care of your self and remember that we are always here to listen when the day seems to dark to deal with.
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32 years old, 1 child ( girl 10 years old) from a previous marriage, TTC 5+years, 7 rounds of clomid failed, 3rd round of IUI failed, taking a break till September, Edmonton Alberta Canada
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lindsey
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I am so sorry Coll1964......it seems like AF always comes at the wrong time. There is no doubt about it.....infertility is the pits. Do something fun with your husband to take your mind off all this stuff. Take Care!
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42 years old. Married 13 years. One miscarriage 3 years ago at 8 weeks. 2 failed IVF which resulted in no pregnancy. IVF April 12 with donor egg.
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Fortyfour
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Coll 1964, I am so sorry about not being pg. Since I am older than you I feel like I can ask if you used your own eggs or donor eggs. I was 39 when I found out I had to use donors. I am not saying that you have to. just curious.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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ElizabethS
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30yrs old. no kids. one ovary and no tubes.
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Coll - I am so sorry. AF can be a real B. Take care of yourself and vent, cry and scream anytime.
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coll1964
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Our email service has been down so I've not been able to check back. Thanks for all the kind words. It is so hard to go through this I am wondering how many times any of you have been through IUI or IVF. I am wondering when to call it quits ($ sure do add up fast). fortyfour these were my own eggs, 8 cell grade A (2 of the 4). I am going to talk my RE into a day 5 transfer for this next go around (they do day 3). At least I will know if we are getting to blast. Thanks again and good luck to all of you.
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40, DH of 11 years, TTC for 6 yrs, IUI 3x in 2004, pg on 2nd try, m/c after 8 wks. IVF Mar. 05 & April 05
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WantsBaby2
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Coll,
I am so sorry. Infertility is so cruel. Good luck with your next attempt. I am sending lots of baby dust your way. Take care.
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38 yrs. DH is 31 yrs. Married November 2002. No children. TTC since the honeymoon. Infertility treatments 2 yrs. 7 failed IUIs. 3 cancelled IVFs due to poor response to meds. Poor ovarian reserve. DH has male factors. Chicago, IL Presently looking into adoption!
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Fortyfour
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Good luck with your next cycle. This is soooo hard to keep doing. Take care and thanks for answering.
I worked with a lady today who had a baby at 44 with her own eggs!!!!!!! I was amazed. You just never know.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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