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Fortyfour
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Well it looks as if I will coming to the top of the boards again. We went in today for my u/s and both babies were dead. I have my d/c tomorrow. I am devastated beyond words. My husband has been crying all day. The doctor thinks it either autoimmune or clotting factor now. I just wish he had tested for all this before I had to do a second m/c. I already miss my 2 little ones and dont really care about anything right now. I really hate to see my husband so sad. I feel like it is my fault since I was the one who talked him into having babies and now all we have is a broken heart. Take care all of you and baby dust to all.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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Fourtyfour,
I am so sorry. I know that doesn't help much but I was really sincerely hoping things would work out for you. Take care of each other you and your husband, I wish you well.
Sylvia
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32 yr old with 36 yr old dh been married 4 years, I. First IVFw/ICSI scheduled January 2006..... BFP on Feb 6, 2006. Due October 14th...It's TWINS!!!!! Babies arrived 14 weeks premature, boy 1lb 11 ounces and girl 1 lb 9 ounces
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JenniferS
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Fortyfour,
I am so sorry for your loss......I will keep you & your husband in my prayers every day.
Jennifer
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I am 30; husband is 28.....TTC 4 years. Unsuccessful w/Clomid, so now using IUI. First IUI w/ miscarriage, 2nd IUI nothing. 3rd IUI to be done in August. I have hope & faith.
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Fortyfour,
I was just sitting here reading your post and screaming NO! NO! NO! It seems so impossible that this could be happening to you again. You poor thing. I am so sorry. Life just isn't fair... not one bit. I will say prayers for you and your hubby tonight. Just know that we are all here for you. You have many many friends here.
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38 yrs. DH is 31 yrs. Married November 2002. No children. TTC since the honeymoon. Infertility treatments 2 yrs. 7 failed IUIs. 3 cancelled IVFs due to poor response to meds. Poor ovarian reserve. DH has male factors. Chicago, IL Presently looking into adoption!
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Fortyfour
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Thank you all for your thoughts - i am still in shock and think that this must be a really bad dream. How could this all happen again. All I can say is that I really enjoyed everymoment of this pregnancy, all the dreams that came with it. I laughed and I dreamed and stayed optimistic until the bitter end. It all seems so cruel. My heart is once again ripped out of my chest and stomped on.
I am going to research with my new ob tests to do to find out what the heck is going on. I get pg easy but the babies wont grow past 8 weeks. I will be changing RE doc. He has always been too nonchalant about things.
I would like to try again in Dec/jan/feb so I need to get a move on and find out what is going wrong.
Take care all and baby dust to everyone.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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barrenwomb
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I was so sorry to hear your news. I can't believe it. It just doesn't seem fair. I wish there was something I could say that would help with the pain but I know there isn't. Just try to hang in there and you and your hubby take care of eachother. I really hope and pray that you get a baby soon.
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24 yrs. DH is 27. Married March 2001. No children. TTC 2 yrs. 1 M/C Nov. 2004. No male or female factors.
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I'm here and I don't know what to say coz sorry seems so empty.
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35 yrs. Married 3years. BFP on 25/04/2005. ~~AngelBaby 6 May 2005~~. D&C and Laparoscopy: stage 2 Endometriosis 12/05/2005. BFP 29 June = Blighted Ovum - d&c August 2005. Conceived 11 March 2006 and had beautiful and healthly BabyGirl at 33wks on 10/10/06.
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oneandonlymel
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fourtyfour my heart goes out to you and I am so very sorry for your losses! I know nothing can make you feel better, but just know you have all of us to lean on. I will pray for you and your husband that the pain will fade and things will work out with a healthy baby or babies in the end!!!
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35 yrs old, dh is 38,married for 5 years on May 20th. have been ttc for 3 years, 3 miscarriages diagnosed with homo MTHFR and factor II mutation, trying on our own, did have one IUI but failed. BFP 7-21 05
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Fortyfour, I am soo sorry to hear of your loss. I can't believe this has happened to you again. You are in my thoughts. My condolences to you and your dh. Please take some time off of work and rest. Will they be able to determine the cause with the d&c? I hope you will find some answers. I will be here. Please vent your anger and sorrow anytime. I hope new drs. will be more informed for you.
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33 yrs old married to dh 12 1/2 yrs. scarred fallopian tubes from laser surgery for cervical cancer cells 3rd ivf attempt in march, now pg. with b/g twins due 12/15/05
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silli_kitti
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44,
I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now. I'm so sorry for your loss. You and DH be strong, lean on each other, pray together, you will get through this. We don't deserve such heartache - after all, we just want to be moms!
My DH has sometimes been down right mean to me over my mood swings, but one thing he's right about is this:
When you are feeling like your world is crumbling and you fall into depths of despair, always remember, that once you have hit bottom, there is only one way to go - and that is up!
Grieve, get angry, make peace, then get up and get to it again!
You have my heartfelt sympathy, and my most sincere wishes for success in the near future.
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37, unexplained infertility (no M or F factors), TTC for 1 yr, 3 failed cycles of Clomid 50 mg + IUI, 2 failed cycles of 5 mg Femara + Gonal-f + IUI, having extreme difficulty coping, esp. with all the blissfully new moms around me
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44,
I just read this thread and I wanted to add my condolences. I was so shocked to see your post. I do hope they find what the issue is and you end up back on the bottom of the boards real soon!
In the meantime, take care of yourself and your hubby!!
Sue
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I am 38; DH is 37. No children; PCO; 1 partially blocked tube; 2 failed IUI's; 3rd IUI cancelled; 1st IVF in May resulted in m/c; 2nd IVF in August, BFP on 9/6/05.
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Fortyfour
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Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayes I go infor my d/c in 3 hours. I really hate having to do that to my body again. My hubby and I both took ativan last night and slept good all night. My eyes open this morngin and I realize that it is really true, my babies are gone.
Thanks once again everyone - this would be unbearable without you all. Baby dust to all.
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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I just got back online and I saw what happened. I am SO sorry! How much can one person take? This completely sucks. I wish there was something I could do. My heart is breaking for you. I'm just so sorry.
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36 years old. Married for 17 years. 1 son, 7 years old, conceived w/ ICSI. 2nd IVF w/ ICSI in June=No Fertilization. August cycle cancelled for poor response. Considering options.
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Fortyfour
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Thanks Meredith
To top it all off my cat is missing today and the way the others are acting he is gone for good. My one cat wont get out from under the bed. This is my cat that we found at a week old and I bottled fed. He always layed on my chest like I was his momma even when he was 5 years old. I must have not latched the door in my ativan state last night. I cant believe it.
I had my d/c today and it went except for the massive vomiting afterwards. I havent reacted that way since my first surgery. ( i have had 5 different surgeries.)
2 nurses that I use to work with were my nursed and I knew the anesthesiologist from a hospital I worked at. As soon as I say them I felt safe. I am cramping alot tonight but it is tolerable. Take care all
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Forty Four years old, hubby is 52 married 4 years, TTC 4 years with this hubby, 14 years with first hubby, One adopted daughter, 2nd ivf done, 1st one pg with m/c, second no pg. Uses egg Donor. PG with twins on 3rd IVF mc twins on 8/25/05
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oneandonlymel
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fourtyfour, I just wanted to say I hope you find your cat! I have 2 of my own and they are like your children. I am sure he will come back, my indoor cat got out before and I thought she was gone, but she ended up coming back the next day! I am once again so very sorry about your losses and I hope you are feeling better soon!
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35 yrs old, dh is 38,married for 5 years on May 20th. have been ttc for 3 years, 3 miscarriages diagnosed with homo MTHFR and factor II mutation, trying on our own, did have one IUI but failed. BFP 7-21 05
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