jaiere2001
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Hi Ladies,
I was searching around the internet this morning trying not to lose my mind and was touched by this particular forum. I first want to pray that all of you have sucessful and healthy pregnancies.
This is my first IVF. 13 eggs retreived on 3/26, 5 were cracked and from what they told us yesterday, 6 fertilized. I go tomorrow 3/29 to have two transferred. I am like most of you, just freaked out and depressed because this experience has not been pleasant at all.
Primarily its a male factor, but I am wondering now if there is a problem with my eggs since so many were damaged. It feel good to know that I am not alone out here. I just want to cry all the time. We are also trying to adopt and it has been very trying as well. I just want my family to be complete so we can enjoy things that families do ( isnt that what lifes really about?)
Peace and Blessings to you all and I Pray for miracles for you all.
Rosemary
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Arabsrcool
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BFP on 3/12!!!. Due date 11/16
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Rosemary,
welcome!. You will find alot of support on this forum. Try to stay positive and remember, it only takes one embie to implant to make a BFP. The journey is not a pleasant, but the chance for success is what keeps us going.
Good luck tomorrow and keep us posted!
Ronda
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jaiere2001
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Thanks so much.
Talked to the lab today and they said that things look okay. Based on the circumstances and my age she said I had a 44% chance of having a baby in the end. Is this normal? It seems kinda a low to me but she said that it was good. Anyone know? thanks
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lyly14
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Jaiere2001- That is a very good percent. Typical couples with no fertility issues only have about a 30-35% chance of conceiving each cycle. So it looks like you are in good standing. Good luck and just remember if it does not happen this cycle it doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong with your eggs ( although going through this whole process we like to blame something when it doesn't work the first time) . A healthy woman who is fertile only has 30% of her eggs being caple of being fertilized Don't ever give up your dreams. Lots of baby dust to you and hopefully you will get your bfp!
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JamieP
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Well my miscarriage is still not over but hopefully only a few more days now. I am still feeling bummed out about the whole thing but I know these things happen. The worst thing is having to wait before we start trying again!! Two months seems like forever.
I hope everyone else is doing well. lyly14 when is your transfered scheduled for or are you still waiting? A frozen transfer is far more straight forward than a fresh cycle.
Tracy - I hope you are doing OK. You seem to have stopped posting.
Rosemary - how did you get on?
Jamie
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jaiere2001
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Jamie,
so sorry to hear about your loss (i have been there).
went for labwork yesterday and all seems okay.
i dont feel any symptoms though, just pain from 1 extremely large ovary. i guess i will just have to wait for my test on next tuesday.
feel better soon and many blessings.
rosemary
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lyly14
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Jamie- Sorry to hear your m/c is dragging on. I remember being so anxious to start trying again after mine. It really does stink, but it will happen. Stay positive. I go tomorrow to set the dates for the FET I am looking for the week of the 21st of April so hopefully it will work out. I'll keep you posted.
Lyly
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1st IVF
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Me 33, DH 30
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Hi ladies,
I just did my 3rd transfer, (2 others failed), I did the hpt on day 10 and it was clearly negative. My 2ww is Friday April 4th. Do you think I could be preggie even with a -hpt at day 10.
My lower back aches, my legs hurt and last night i got a sticking pain in the right abdomen.
Any advise for me?
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jaiere2001
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NMT,
I have been told that it best just wait until your blood test. HPT maynot always pick up HCG if it is low. I have always had problems with HPT. False Positives and False negative so i rarely depend on and try not to lose them. Try to hang in there, 2 more days to go.
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jaiere2001
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Hi ladies,
I have a question. What is implantation bleeding like?
I am 7 days post retrieval and 4 days post transfer. since retrieval I have always had pink streaked CM when wiping from a cervical polyp that was found on transfer day. A few nights a go, I was woke up by a brief pinching in my abdomen. Today I had like 3 mild cramps and I have had pink spotting all day. I have changed liners 3 times but it time it has been less that a teaspoon of fluid. besides that no real pain.
Has anyone experienced this before and could it be implantation bleeding. My progesterone and labs yesterday were perfect.
thanks in advance for your help.
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