Slap in the face!
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WantsBaby2 - September 30

Ok ladies...here is a great example of insensitivity....

I work with this young 24 yr. old B*#%! I don't like her very much...she is all about herself ALL of the time. She has a new boyfriend every 5 minutes and talks nonstop about how ALL guys are ALWAYS hitting on her...I think you get the annoying drift.... ::)

Well, she was telling me last night on our dinner break that she had a huge scare and thought she was pregnant. Now....unfortunately she knows what my DH and I have been going through. She has taken the unfortunate brunt of a couple of my hormonal mood swings in the past couple of months... :o

She went on to say how she would have an abortion because she is still living at home with her parents and they would kick her out....blah blah blah. I just sat there and stared at her with a blank look on my face. I said, "You would just kill your baby?" and she claimed she would have no choice. I said, "Don't you know that there are thousands of couples who would absolutely love to adopt a little baby?" She just shrugged her shoulders. >:(

Why are women so cruel? Why would she tell me that knowing what I am going through? I didn't talk to her the rest of the night and then slipped out the back door when it was time to go home. People are just mean.
Thanks for listening ladies.

Wantsbaby2

 

silli_kitti - September 30

OMG what an insenstive b*tch!

 

sblanton2 - September 30

That is terrible.....People like that should be sterilized....(only half kidding)

 

Fortyfour - October 2

They dont see them as babies yet I guess. I have a girlfriend who can't talk to me right now because my pregnancy and m/c is reminding her of her abortion she had 15 years ago. What exactly going through her head I do not know.

Some people live life so recklessly. She will learn that later in life. Its so sad and irritating. I am glad you said something to her wantsbaby2. So many just accept abortion as the way to go instead of using birthcontrol. Good luck with your next cycle. Take care.

 

TICKINGCLOCK - October 3

WANTSBABY2

I DON'T UNDERSTAND THAT EITHER PEOPLE ARE SO RUDE. I NEVER REALIZED HOW HARD AND STRESSFUL TRYING TO HAVE A BABY WOULD BE. I FEEL LIKE ITS A CONSTANT ROLL A COASTER.
I'D LIKE TO PUT THOSE KIND OF PEOPLE IN OUR SHOES FOR A LITTLE BIT. DONT LET HER GET YOU DOWN SHE DOESNT SOUND LIKE A VERY NICE PERSON.
I AM 37 TOO AND I FEEL LIKE I AM ON A RACE AGAINST TIME.
I HAD MY FIRST IUI ON FRIDAY. I AM EXCITED BUT ALSO SO NERVOUS THAT I WILL BE LET DOWN. ITS HAS BEEN MORE AND MORE DEPRESSING EACH TIME I GET MY PERIOD. BUT I WILL TRY TO THINK POSITIVE
GINA

 

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