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Hi Shawnda,
welcome, and I'm very sorry for your loss-I just lost my baby at 16 weecks myself and a little girl,who didn't make it after 4 days she was born when I was 19 years old.I should be blessed with my almost 13 years old son and hope that one day we'll have a little one again-alive.
Have you had some tests done to find out why you are having m/cs?They did million tests on me after Ilost my baby at 16w and didn't find a thing that could cause a m/c...

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Yes we have both had test done. He is fine and they think that i may have PCOS but recently they found a cyst on my left ovary and didn't want to do anything else until we could see what the cyst was going to do. I had surgery to remove the cyst and they also found endometriosis. everything that needed to be removed they did that so now my husband and i have to wait 2 weeks before we can do anything and have a follow up appointment soon so we'll see what my RE has to say, I'll keep you updated thanks for the reply its hard dealing with all these issue. sometimes it feels like one thing after the other.

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I understand!! I would have been having our first child April 5, 2008, but I misscarried, Now this Wednesday we find out if we are PG again.

I am feeling down too, I am scared to hear the words once again, I am sorry.

Hey, we all need friends, and a lot of us really dont have someone in the "real" world who will get you during this time. Most of us, from what I have read from other women, understand. Just know your not alone.

And I am sorry for your loss, its not fun, and the pain is deep.

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Thank you so much, It is hard because a lot of people don't seem to understand. Sometimes we could all use a little support, its hard being strong all the time :(

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