Life after a tubaligation..
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chynnadoll - January 20

tranee, I have heard that as well, I know someone whos tubes came untied and she conceived but she also got an abortion :-\, but she already has five children! I heard if they don't tie them and burn them they can come untied in 3 to 7 years also....Good Luck....China

 

MICHELLE - January 29

Hello everyone well I guess I'm not alone and everyone have similiar situations. well I also found mr. wonderful and we've been together for seven years .and after a divorce and getting my tubes tied . see the problem with me is that I didn't go to the interview I just handed my papers after delivery I didn't want to have another baby in an abusive relationship.and now we would love to become parents and I can't do this .now i feel like a did something wrong we i cant give him something as precious as a child

 

magaly gerena - February 7

hi everyone, i had my tubes cut and burn 8 yrs ago. And now i have lot of cramps like if i have my period but nothing I'm 5 days late. I haven't gone to the the Doctor yet because I'm scare. I'm sick, dizzy, back hurts the works. Can you come out pregnant after having a tubal ligation done? Can anyone give advice please.....

 

Chiquita Anderson - February 17

Hello, everyone I am 28 yrs old and my tubes are tyed and I want to get them untyed because I missed out on my baby life because I moved from Philadelphia to North Carolina not knowing that this is a state that rob and rap people of there right. I had to battle with NC DSS because of and out of control social worker and missed all my baby moments because my older son had a mark on his neck and now my baby is a year old I want to get out of this races town and go back to Philly, but I want to know if any one knows if it is possible to get it done and have a baby. PLEASE SEND ME SOME INFO....

 

jacqueline - February 23

HI! GOD BLESS YOU ALL. I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I ,TO HAD A TUBAL LIGATION DONE AFTER MY FOURTH CHILD. I'M MARRIED TO MY SOUL MATE , HAD 2 BOYS AND 2 GIRLS TOGETHER AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 9 YEARS NOW. IM 28 , MY HUSAND 29. WE THOUGHT OUR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE UNTILL I GOT REALLY DIPRESSED, DEEP INSIDE I FELT SAD AND ANGRY THAT I CAN NOT HAVE ANY MOR CHILDREN. I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING W\ THIS DIPRESSION FOR A GOOD 4 YEARS AND COUNTING . FINALLY I JUST HAD TO GIVE IT TO MY LORD , I CAN NOT CARRY IT ON MY SHOULDERS ANYMORE. I ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING THE CONTROL OUT OF HIS HANDS AND TAKING IT IN TO MY OWN HANDS IN DETERMININIG HOW MANY KIDS I WOULD HAVE. I WAS WRONG . THE LORD KNOWS HOW MANY CHILDREN HE WANTS ME TO HAVE. I GAVE BACK THE CONTROL TO HIM. FOR MY HUSBAND AND MYSELF WE SO DESIRE ANOTHER BABY. I KNOW GOD GIVES US THE DESIRES OF OUR HEARTS. IM BELEIVING IN A MIRACLE BECAUSE I KNOW AND BELIEVE THAT MY GOD IS A GOD FULL OF MIRACLES..... SO I SPEAK TO THAT MOUNTAIN FOR ALL YOU WOMEN WHO ARE ALSO DESIRING A BABY I SPEAK MIRACLES AND BLESSINGS IN YOUR LIFE.. GOD SAYS ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE .NOTHING NO, NOTHING IS TO IMPOSSIBLE FOR GOD . WHAT IS IMPOSSSIBLE TO MEN IS POSSIBLE TO GOD. SO TO THOSE WHO ASK ''COULD I BE / OR GET PREGNANT AFTER A TUBAL''? AS FAR AS GOD'S CONCERN ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THERE IS HOPE LADIES. ITS ONLY A PRAYER AWAY. THE LORD IS A FORGIVING AND MERCIFUL GOD ..... THANK GOD HE IS...... SO I WILL CONTINUE TO BELIEVE IN THE MIRACLE GOD HAS ALREADY ORDAINED FOR ME.........GOD BLESS

 

Monica - February 28


AMEN Jacqueline!!!!!!! You are absolutely right!! Wow, what faith you have :) That is awesome!!
ANYTHING is possible with God, ANYTHING.....so ladies keep believing, and watch what God does ;).

On another note, I heard about this tubal reversal doctor in Rio Bravo, Mexico that only charges about $2200 for his tubal reversal surgeries. He has been performing that particular surgery for awhile now, and on his website he has lots of testimonials fom his patients. His name is Dr. Roberto Perez, and Dr. Levi. You guys should check him out. He seems very reputable.

Baby Dust To You All,
Monica

 

MRS.HEARTBROKEN - March 2

I'M 26 YEARS OLD AND HUSBAND AND I HAN A BABY GIRL SHE HAD A INLARGE HEART THE DOCTORS FIND SOMEONE TO FIX IT BUT GOD WANTED HE SOONER THAN WE THOUGT. I RECEIVED A TUBUL BECAUSE I THOUGT IT WAS MY FAULT. SO I DIDN'T WANT HIM OR ME TO HURT AGAIN BUT WHAT I DID WAS HURT US REALLY HARD. NOW I DON'T HAVE THE MONEY FOR A REVERSAL NEED SOME EXTRA LOVE.

 

Monica - March 2


Mrs. Heartbroken: I just sent a prayer up to Heaven on your behalf, and I know that God will restore back to you DOUBLE what was taken away from you & your husband. In the meantime, please check out that Doctor in Mexico that I mentioned in my post above. He is ALOT cheaper than the American tubal reversal doctors.
Also, if you go to www.blessedarrows.com, they may be able to help you as well.

Baby Dust To You & PLEASE keep the Faith!!!!!
Monica :)

 

ERICA - March 9

HELLO LADIES
I GOT MY TUBES TIDE CAUSE MY SON WAS BORN WITH A HEART PROBELM AND HE PASS AWAY AT 3 MONTHS AND EVER SINCE THEN I HAVE BEEN ANGRY, MAD, SAD AND HURT I JUST COULD NOT UNDERSTAND WHY GOD TOOK MY BABY WHEN I HAD 2 KIDS AND I AM A GOOD MOTHER UNTILL I MET SOMEONE WHO TOLD ME THAT WHAT I HAD WAS A ANGEL AND HE NEEDED TO BE IN HEAVEN WITH GOD TO WATCH OVER ME AND I FELT BETTER KNOWING THAT GOD CHOOSE ME TO HAVE HIS ANGEL WELL I REGRET GETTING MY TUBES TIDE AND I WANT ANOTHER BABY I DONT HAVE THE MONEY TO GET A REVERSAL WEATHER HERE IN TH UNITED STATES OR MEXICO I WISH FOR A BLESSING I WISH FOR A BABY I WISH I STILL HAD MY BABY I AM HURT IF ANYONE COULD HELP PLEASE CAUSE I WOULD NOT HAVE HAD IT DONE IF I KNOW GOD WAS GOING TO TAKE HIS ANGEL PLEASE HELP

 

Monica - March 9


Erica: Go to www.blessedarrows.com. They have a program where they will actually pay for your reversal surgery through donations from others. I know that there is a waiting list, but eventually your name would be at the top. Please check it out........

Baby Dust To You!!! :)
Monica

 

Lashika - March 10

I am 28 years old I have a 12 year old and 6 year old girl and a 5 year old boy. My mother made me get my tubes tied at the age of 23. Now that i have got out on my own and found the man of my life ,he wants a child of his own and i can,t give it to him. I WANT another child but. we can't afford the cost. If anyone is out there that can help me PLEASE RESPOND!!!!!!!! I really want to surprise him with his first child.

 

Baby Dust Needed - March 23

[quote]Hi Monica, do you know if that is the correct web site address? I just tried to log on and it can't be found.... I am in desperate need of help!
Thank you, Michelle

quote author=Monica link=board=12;threadid=581;start=30#15731 date=1141911563]

Erica: Go to www.blessedarrows.com. They have a program where they will actually pay for your reversal surgery through donations from others. I know that there is a waiting list, but eventually your name would be at the top. Please check it out........

Baby Dust To You!!! :)
Monica
[/quote]

 

Monica - March 23


Baby Dust Needed: I'm sorry.....The correct web address is www.blessedarrows.org. It is not "com", it is "org". Try that. Also log unto www.riobravoreversal.com for the Doctor that I mentioned in my earlier posts. I hope that this information helps.

Much Baby Dust To You!
Monica

 

Nicole - March 25

I have two beautiful children with a dreadful ex. We were together for 7 long and hard years. Finally divorced and much happier, I live for myself and my two children. I realized I lost myself and was someone else for my ex. Almost a year later, I am with a wonderful man who I wish was the father of my children. My daughter has grown so attached, and as for my son, I feel someday he will. My boyfriend has two of his own, but has a dreadful ex also. We have talked about a child of our own, and at first I was like yeah, maybe. Now I feel it would be right, and the right time. My children use to ask me if they can have another brother or sister, and I think that maybe they should. My children help me remember to be me, and have taught me never lose sight of that again, at which I teach them to do the same.

 

Subrena - March 26

Hello,
I am a new one to life after tubaligation. I previously got my tubes tied about three days ago. Right now I have no regrets at all. I have a 13,8 and 3 year old. I have a wonderful husband of 10 years whom is very supportive of our three kids. I am now 32 years old and when I started having kids, I was in college and doing very well might I add. I feel like I put my life on hold long enough for the life of my kids. It is now almost time for me to start thinking about what I want out of life and the future I want for my kids. I chose tubaligation because I honestly can say that I am threw having kids and I am tired of all the birth control and hormone this and hormone that. I can enjoy sex with my husband and not have to worry about getting pregnant and putting my life on hold. Even if my husband and I were to seperate and I would find someone else, having another baby would be out of the question. Who knows you go through all the time and effort to have another baby for someone else wants and you might find yourself raising a baby alone. So I say to you out there, make sure that tubaligation is the right thing for you.

 

AbbyGail - March 28

I'm 36 and had my tubal about 9 years ago. I have two wonderful children I have finally met the man of my dreams and wish I could have a baby. But who knows maybe it will happen. We would both love it but if it doesn't we are happy with his and mine. I stumbled onto this site and I glad I did I just wanted to say to Monica I LOVE your faith thank you for touching my heart.

 

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