IVF anyone?
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lyly14 - December 20

Marina- I am so sorry to hear about your scare, but am glad things are ok. Was it heavy bleeding or just spotting? Either one is scary when it happens, but when it is heavy, it is hard not to think the worst. My dh's cousin had that with the last pregnancy and she bled off and on for a long time, but they have a beautiful baby girl now :) Make sure you take it easy even after the bleeding stops and no lifting! It is so scary when things like that happen, but all we can do is wait it out and pray for the best. My thoughts are with you.

 

Marina - December 20

Julie,Lyly,
thanks so much for your support! :)
now when I hear from other people that it happens and pregnancy still turns out ok,it's comforting.I just never expirienced this before with my 2 other pregnancies.I'm 7w1d Pg.And yes,that wasn't just spoting,it was more like my regular period,started pink and turned red later.The only difference-in the morning I found only light brownish spotting.So now,I'm afraid to move(lol)
The bad thing is my work-I'm a hairstylist and now the busiest time of the year before Christmas and I hate to cancel on my clients :(,some of them made their appoitments a long time ago...But,this is more important to me.I was asking my RE about my work ,if I can continue , I succied to squize out of him"I wouldn't".
The good thig is -we could see baby's heartbeat-it was amaizing :)!He told me to keep my appoitment on 26 to recheck things,but he didn't seems to be concern.

 

Jules614 - December 20

Just stay positive - I know easier said than done. I would be freaking out too. But seeing the heartbeat is a very good sign. How is your boss handling it?

Julie

 

Marina - December 21

My boss is my husband ;D,so he is the one who canceled all my appoitments and told me if I don't listen,he'll fire me(lol).If serious,we own a hairsalon,so,I'm my own boss.

 

Jules614 - December 21

Oh Marina that is great! I couldn't imagine not getting support! phew

Julie

 

mjforney - December 21

Just reading all your posts, Congrats ladies, lots of pregnancies here! I am 14 weeeks 3 days but been on the other thread (pregnancy after infertility).... Congrats and good luck with your ultrasounds!

 

Jules614 - December 21

Thanks Mjforney!

Julie

 

lyly14 - December 21

Hi girls just checking in.
Marina- How are you doing? Bed rest can be tough. I remember I was put on bed rest when I was pg with my dd. I hated it. I get so restless, it is hard for me to stay still.

Julie- Less than a week until your u/s. Are you getting excited or are you nervous?

It is funny how most people don't even think about things going wrong or having problems with a pregnancy. I remember the first time I was pg, I didnt have a clue or at least didn't think about the fact that I could lose it. Thankfully I didn't (although I had so many problems) and I have my beautiful dd. Now I cant even get pg. and after 4 pgs and only 1 child , it is nothing but worry with each pg.

 

Jules614 - December 21

Lyly - u r so right. I was so calm during my first pregnancy. I was also 60 pounds lighter and didn;t worry about the weight issue. They say being overweight makes you more proned to miscarriages. I am so overweight now.

Julie

 

Marina - December 21

Hi girls,I'm much better today,no blood,just very light spotting.
Lyly,we were just talking about the same thing with my husband-I didn't worry about a thing with my other PG's,that something could go wrong.May be it's too much information,you can find anything on internet now-good and bad.That's why my husband doesn't want me to dig out all the scary stuff,sometimes it's much better if you know less than more-less stress.But on the other hand,I need to know what's going on.When women go through fertility treatments,it's so important to them,that any little thing can make us absolutely crazy.

 

Jules614 - December 21

Marina -

Now that you aren't bleeding much will you be taken off bed rest or is there an amount of time you need to rest?

Julie

 

Marina - December 21

Julie,
my Re said "when everything calms down",he didn't say-2,3,4 days.I told you,he is a character!So,I plan on going to work tonight and do 2 clients,they are my friends and I don't have to dress up and fuss around them,so it'll be fine.And before that-I 'm a good girl and stay on a couch!

 

Jules614 - December 21

good girl - no concern of you breathing in the chemicals from perms or anything..

Julie

 

Marina - December 21

It was my #1 concern,but after reading a lot about chemicals and PG ,I found out that chemicals like we are working with and household cleaners is safe,even if a small amount can get throught from breathing placenta works as a filter,there in no indecation it can harm the baby.But I still wear mask and gloves(this is how everyone figured out right away I was PG)...

 

Jules614 - December 22

Mrina -

I worked at a chemical plant durin my first pregnancy and my daughter turned out 100% healthy!

Julie

 

Marina - December 24



I know you don't celebrate Christmas,I'm jewish girl too,but my husbands family are all do,so do I(like I like to say to my other relatives-we are having Chanukah bush with blue lights and presents for our son)
I wish you all luck on 26,let's keep in touch!

 

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