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jenni i'm so sorry.... you must be so disappointed... it's horrible isnt it ?? I am now definitely BFN... my HCG levels gone down again and AF has come with a vengeance.. .
but spoke to dr yesterday and he said that it was a good sign that i was 'bio-chemically pregnant' for a few days.. so i guess we'll try again in a month.
And you ??
Maybe we can chat then too ? Or maybe we should just start emailing eachother ? Its great to have someone who is going through the same thing at the same time..
hang on in there
rachel

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Hi Rachel,
Sorry to hear about your results, especially since you were so close to BFP, just seems cruel aye?
I know exactly how your feeling, I kind of got my hopes up, especially since 2 good embies were transfered.
Yeah we are going to give it another go, but will discuss my options with the clinic on Monday.
Hey it would be neat to keep in touch with you, especially as we are going through this at the same time.
It's certainley a roller coaster ride aye?
Hey I met a lady the other day through a work mate and she had IVF a couple of years back.
One of her eggs split, so has Triplet girls who are 11 months old.
2 were identical and the other was the same but with different colouring. They were real cuties!
This made made me more determined to carry on, it's the only hope we have to have our own family.
Hey keep in touch
Jenni
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hI LADIES,
i JUST HAD MY FIRST IVF MARCH 13 AND NOW DOING MY 2WW.. i AM GOING NUTS i DON'T KNOW WHAT TO THINK... ON THE THIRD DAY AFTER MY TRANSFER I WAS HAVING CRAMPING RIGHT BY MY LEFT SIDE THEY FELT LIKE OVULATION CRAMPS AND OCCASIONALLY I FEEL LIKE I AM GETTING MY PERIOD.. ON MY 5TH DAY I DID A HOME PG TEST IT WAS NEG ..BUT I WAS OK WITH THAT IT WAS PROBALY TOO EARLIE BUT NOW I AM SCARED TO TRY AGAIN . I HAVE MY BLOOD TEST WEND .. i CAN'T SLEEP .. IT IS ALL I THINK ABOUT ..I HAVE NO BLEEDING OR SPOTTING JUST MILD TWINGES . i AM ON MY 6 DAY POST TRANSFER .. THE FIRST NIGHTS SFTER THE TRANSFER ALL I DID WAS CRY.. I CRYED SOOO MUCH I WAS AFRAID THAT I WAS GOING TO DISRUPT THINGS ..I HOPE ALL IS OK...NERVOUS RECK....
GOING NUTS...............

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Good luck Krystine with your 2 week wait.
I know it can be tough and the last few days seem to drag!
Really hope it all goes well for you!

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KRYSTINE2472, try to relax. All that stress is not good for you right now. It's a very crucial moment, and you don't want to mess it up, by letting your mind play tricks on you. Please, try to rest and be good to yourself. Sure, you will observe all the little things you can feel in your body, but just acknowledge it and move on with the rest of your day. Focusing on something we have no control about is not very productive. The only productive thing you can do is to think positive thoughts. I've been in your shoes and I agree those 2ww are really a test of our patience. But think of the end result.
Hang in there and if you feel like you are losing your mind, come visit us on this site.
Thinking of you. Fiso

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Krystine:

I have to agree - those 2ww are horrible - but whatever you do don't do an HPT - I did one it was negative and I was so upset - but then I was told it was too soon and not to do it again so I just waited and kept myself busy. I was on bed rest for 3 days and did absolutely nothing. DH pampered me and my daughter kept an eye on me.

And low and behold BFP on Jan 26th - I was so excited I almost fell when I got the phone call b/c i was standing - I just went down to my knees and cried from total joy.

All baby dust to you and just keep busy and try to not think about the wait.

Prayers and baby dust to you always,
Carrie

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Indeed Krystine.. I know it is easier said than done.. but do not stress out as Fiso and Hopeful have said... you have to relax, stay positive and rest...

You will most likely feel twinges and cramping and many signs similar to PMS.. and it is too dificult to analyze whether it is implantation or actual PMS.. you will go out of your mind trying to figure it out. Just stay busy... and try to not think about the awful 2ww so much... (again MUCH easier said than done!)

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Hi Everyone,

I just had my first IVF transfer last friday! and find out this friday if im pregnant! What a pain to wait 2 weeks!! Anyway I have very intense cramping and bloating! Also bad nausia! I also feel like i have the flu! its so uncomfortable! Does anyone have these feelings after transfer? I see some people have cramps! Does anyone have any remedies to help these symtons?? P;lease let me no if anyone got pregnant with these symtons? love to hear from anyone!

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Wow, you sound pregnant? r u (0:
only got bloatg & cramping nothing else -
sheanna

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