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i hope your s/o was just freaking out over the twin news. it usually takes time for people to adjust to the idea, and in my experience the partners worry about us more than the babies for quite a while. so if you were in the hospital over the pregnancy, he may be afraid for your health because of carrying twins. i'll be praying for you. sorry for the bad reaction that you got. |
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Does the hospital you had the transfer done have counselor services? If your insurance covered the transfer it could also cover speaking with a counselor/pyschologist. Before my dh and I had our 1st. transfer a pyschologist spoke with both of us privately and it helped a lot. Go alone if he doesn't want to go. cassandra |
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He might just need some time. Did he know the chances multiples going into this? Even one embryo could have made twins. I hope all is well. |
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I agree - give him some time, and go for counselling, if he won't go then go alone. |
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Well, then if he left you, he wasn't good enough for you in the first place, hope things have changed. |
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His reaction doesn't come from love but from fear and low self-esteem. His ex played a trick on him, now he thinks that every woman is going to do that to him. He needs to realize that you are not his ex, and that you wanted these babies out of love. Also, he may be afraid that he won't be able to keep on buying toys ....for himself, such as the motorcycle. |
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What the hec!! He needs to grow the @#$@ up..you are not his ex!! And if having two instead of one is gonna put a cramp in his lifestyle, maybe he needs to re-think his priorities...Has he not ever heard of CHILD SUPPORT? That would really put a hamper on his scooter!!!!! |
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I'm sorry :( |
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