Anyone dealing with infidelity after several miscarriages?
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invertigo31 - June 15

I have had 9 miscarriages and 2 ectopics...

I think it has taken its toll... Hubby cheated on me last year and I want to be pregnant so bad and go for infertility treatments but I am so scared to...

Can anyone relate?? :'(

 

invertigo31 - June 17

14 reads and no responses???? Is that a sign that this is happening and nobody wants to talk about it?? Or are there just no words of comfort???

Either way.. Thanks for the support...

Finding greener more supportive pastures...

 

Yukon Queen - June 17

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14 reads and no responses???? Is that a sign that this is happening and nobody wants to talk about it?? Or are there just no words of comfort???

Either way.. Thanks for the support...

Finding greener more supportive pastures...
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You are not alone my dear,dont feel so bad about your situation.I know that it can be very difficult fighting infertility as well as infidelity.
Though am not fighting infidelity also but i tell you this my husbands family are driving me crazy especially my mother in law.
They are making life and marriage so unbearable for me but am hanging in there.
Things will work out fine for you by Gods grace,you are both going thru alot, your man will come to understand that infidelity is not the answer but love and support which decreases the stress creating a most favourable environment for conception and decreased MC.
You may have to see a specialist for further assistance.
Cheer up my sister for God will make a way for you.
May your day be blessed.

 

RabbitEars - June 17

Invertigo31--

I think infertility can REALLY put a lot of stress on a marriage. Fault, balme, guilt...all those negative emotions floating around out there just waiting to erupt...My husband and I are going through some hard times too. When he was told by our doctor that he has male factor infertility he became angry at me!! He ignores me now all the time and makes me feel bad if I even bring up having a baby. We both agreed to start doing IUI's and fertility drugs...I am the one who has to take the med's, I am the one who has to go and get blood work every week, and who has to get inseminated, and yet he acts like he is mad at me.???

Men can act very strange and do odd things that they normally wouldnt do when they are presented with difficulties such as infertility. Not that that is an excuse for their behavior. If you need to vent, cry or just talk, please know that we are all going through the same thing and you are not alone. Have you suggested counseling to your husband? Maybe you need a mediator to get your feelings out together?

Hope this helps!

~Chrissy

 

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