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well keisha i am 25 and after this pregnancy i am getting my tubes tied to but i know i will never want to be pregnate again. I love my daughter and the baby i am carrying however pregnancy itself is not a joy for me. I take alot of meds while pregnate am not aloud to work and i get really sick during it. My body and soul could not take another. This being pregnancy #7 for me and child #2 is good enough for me. My daughter is my world and i love being a mother but i could never love pregnancy to me the best part is delivery. But dont feel stingy wanting another and ranting and raving is what this site is for. Tell your daughter happy birthday.

I have to advise as someone who has been there please research the side effects syptoms that come with having tubes tied some ppl feel like a diff person with hormone swings and terrible cycles i myself knew the diff immediatly i felt bad all time i know how dificult pregnancy can be i never had trouble gettin preg but i had trouble carrying to term going into preterm labor with all my kids one being born at 29 weeks and weighing 2 lbs 10 oz that was main reason i thought i didnt want anymore cause it was so hard i cant say dont do it but do your research and talk to as many women as you can to find out what the surgery really does to you cause no one told me whatever you decide i wish you peace with your choice

i have horrible hormone problems and periods already and i also have what they call hypermesis which is horrible. I get deathly sick while being pregnate. I actually hate being pregnant.

Well bless your heart i totally respect your choice i just wanted you to have the facts how is the bun in the oven now you are coming along now almost half way hope all is well

Yeah i turned 17 weeks yesterday. Still been rough been on alot of meds. I get sick alot and like i said i have hypermermesis. I lost 22 lbs in the beginning. Spent alot of time with the er and a picc line up until 3 weeks ago. However still on meds to be able to eat. Yeah they recommend that i get my tubes ties. With hypermesis it makes your chances of you and the baby dying. Also once you have it with a pregnancy your not likely to have another without it. But when i get my periods i am on perkacetes(bad spelling) just for pain and blood thinners the week before to try and control clots. Iam always emotional and hormonal im use to it. After 5 m/c also i know im done. I am at the point where i am starting to think pregnancy is torture. I am just sooooooo done. I always said i did not want an only child and i will now have that so i am happy and so is dh. He has already told me that he does not want to see me ever go through another pregnancy and be this sick, he says it hurts his heart to see me this way.

you know i have the bad clots too and the cramps are unbearable sometimes i cant even functions and the kids are like come on mom and i am hurting all the way around my back and down to my knees i cant imagine it any worse but the thing that has kicked my ass is the cyste on my overies they make me crazy with pain my head spins and i start to black out they hurt so bad and doc says the clomid may make them worse go figure no pain no gain i guess i wish you luck with this one and thought id tell you my periods got worse after my tubes but they have a lazer surgery that is supposed to make them better and almost go away or so i have been told

after i took clomid and had my daughter my cysts went away so maybe u will be as lucky

well that would be great i started clomid yesterday today will be day #2

any headaches. that was my only side effect but i never had them before my last round of it.

no not yet just kinda feel zoned out like in a daze

yeah i had that my first time and then i never had it again. I think this site should be keisha nad beths discussions. lol

well ive been watchin dave and deb i think it is im happy for them everything is lookin so good!!! so beth is your name i didnt know what to call you lol

oh sorry i thought i told you. Itype on so many forums i must of forgot it

No prob Beth i would like to ask a few questions and they may sound dumb but remember i am new to all of this so here goes RE wants me to start taking temps well i thought that just told you when you O but he said something about a ludial phase that i dont understand and my period usually lasts at least 7days with spottin all the way up to O but today it is like gone with no sign of coming back does clomid do that ? and here is the big one i read someone said they bd on the day they O and used (preseed) WHATS THAT??? lol i know what bd is but what is preseed?

Hi Keisha,
I'm not sure about the temp question, but I do know what preseed is. It's a lubrecant that is sperm friendly.
Hope that helps.

does it help to use it or is it just recommended if you need lubricant?