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Hi, i'm 36 years old, trying to have a baby for the last 5 years. We had 6 IVFs without any success. The doctors have no answer to why. In all these cycles, i had around 10 eggs. In five of them we had 3 fertilized embryos and they transfered them all. In one cycle, they could freeze 3 embryos, but when they thawed them, they were no good. The last time we had 4 embryos, they transfered two of them and the other two were frozen.
I'm trying to find out if anyone had the same experience as i had. In all the trials, on the second day after the transfer, i started to feel like my period would start in the next 10 seconds. My breasts started to hurt and swallowed. I had some cramps. I had the burning feeling and it was as if i was about to explode. In the last days, before the test, I had pimples on my forehad, which is the last sign of my period. These last days are the worst, because you're %99 sure that you are not pregnant, but everybody treats you like you're and you cannot say anything. It is really heartbreaking.
The last time our doctor said that my body refuses the embryos, it might be because of my immune system, so i'll start taking some steroids and we will try one more with the frozen ones. I'm waiting for my period to start (we had the test on Monday, August 8, i stopped taking any medicines and my period should start, but it does not, because i think over it all the time, as i'm anxious to start, maybe i'm going crazy, i don't know). After 12 days, they will check and tell if they can make the transfer.
I'm so afraid to hear that the thawed ones are no good. I don't want to call bad things, but i'm dissappointed, sorry, tired and angry after the last time. I know i should hang on, there are lot's of people with more trials, with failure, i should keep my faith, but it is so hard, because i really don't know where i'm doing wrong.
I would appreciate if you can share your opinions and hope the God will give babies to all of us who want to be a mother one day. Best of luck to us all!
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