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hello ladies i just thought id share my news with u umm...m so heres what happened.... i went to the doctor this friday 11/30 and they couldnt find our lil ones heartbeat so they sent us to have an ultrasound done well i had whats called a missed miscarriage i lost my lil one the baby measured 11 weeks and 3 days and i would have been 14 weeks yesterday they said my lil one fought to make it that far but couldnt fight anymore. so i had to have a D&C done friday night they said i did great physically im ok except for the cramping no bleeding or anything but emotionally this is so devastating. ladies this sucks so bad and i dont know what to do. my hearts in a million pieces and i dont know how to put it back together. i have never felt so empty in my entire life. sorry i dont mean to go on i just have to much on my mind. i just want my baby back.

jess

Hi everyone,

Jess I am so sorry to hear of your loss just have faith that god will give you a baby one day soon, hang in there and don't give up...

Renee, how are you feeling?? I talked to Lili and she says hello to everyone on here..

Shan How are you doing we haven't seen you on in awhile??

Well Friday is the big exciting day for me it can't come soon enough, my entire family is so excited, today is my last NST and last OB appt, I still can't believe it!

Take care ladies and Have a nice day :)

Alexa

Jess,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I know how hard it is to try to think positive when it seems like your world just ended. Remember, you're not alone and you are in our prayers.

Hello Ladies, ;D

Welcome to all the newbie’s. ;D

Sorry I have been MIA, it’s been crazy over here due to the Thanksgiving holiday, getting my baby girl nursery together, and working crazy hours at work before I go on maternity leave. I’m doing well, it seems like she moves more and more each day. I can’t wait to see her.

Alexa – I can’t believe this is it for you. I’m so happy for you. Do you know if Lili had her baby yet?

Jess – I’m sorry to hear about your m/c. I had a missed m/c at 7weeks 5 days of May 06, so I know how you feel. I’ll be praying for you and your DF. Keep your head up, Jess. Your time is coming when god will bless you with a child.

To all the other ladies, I hope you're doing well.

Love,
Shan

P.S. -- Tomorrow is my birthday!!!! YAYYYYYYYYY!!!! ;D ;D

Good Morning Ladies,

First I want to say congratulations to all of the new bfp's and welcome!!

Sorry I have been MIA but me and baby have had a few close calls over the course of the last month and a half but we have made it and to make a long story short and I am on complete lock down and bedrest until this little makes his debut!! He is growing so fast now- it is so exciting. This time last year I was picking my heart up off the ground losing my last angels, but God has blessed me with another opportunity. DD and DH are on their toes and ready for the world and after all this time I am not prepared for anything. So my family are pitching in for the heave ho and I am just being the queen of the hill!! ;D

I am glad that we are all coming to end of this pg journey.
Lili- I know that you won't be on, I hate that I didn't get a chance to speak with you before you left. I hope that all goes well with you and that your little baby is a healthy happy one!!!
Alexa you're up this friday - congratulations!!
Jess, Renee and Shan - how are you all doing - getting bigger and loving it I hope!
Well ladies. I will be stalking the boards more that I can't leave the house. My entire routine is over and I think I can next to it. School is over next week and my teackers have really worked with me this half of the semester!!

Well ladies, I will be talking to you all soon!!!

Hi Shan, Nice to hear from you and happy to know everything is going well a few days ago I talked to Lili so as far as I know she is still waiting...

Shara, its nice to see you back on here hopefully time will fly by for you while your on bedrest, your almost there! How old is your DD my DD is 3.5 she is very excited to be a big sister...

Alexa

Hi Alexa

My dd is 10 and will be 11 on 1/10/08 and she is beside herself with excitement. She said that she wanted the baby to sleep with her. I laughed and thought, you say that now until he gets here and she can't sleep lol! She'll really love him then!

Hi Jess
I just want to say that I am so sorry for your loss. I had a m/c that started at 8 weeks that was already over at 5 weeks gestation. They called it a blighted ovum. You need time and nothing no one can say can make you feel any better. My emotions were mixed about children after that. Me and dh didn't know if we were going to try again immediately or if we wanted to try again at all. My prayers are with you and I hope that the road gets easier for you with a little time. Keep us posted!!

Jellybean, good luck, I got a BFP from my 3rd IUI. I'm now almost 26 weeks. Let me know how it goes.

Jesswantsafamily, I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you.

Alexa, Wow you will have your baby to hold on Friday!!!! Yeah!! I'm feeling good, but I have been fighting a sinus infection. I feel a little better today. Good luck and let us know how things go.

Shara, Sorry to hear about your problems, but glad everything is going well now. So how is the bed rest, are you bored yet? You are almost there!!! Hang in there.

Well girls, I'm fighting off sinus infection. I'm on anti-botic and sudafed. I hate to take meds, but I need to so I cant get better for this baby. I was worried yesterday, I felt the baby move but not as much as usual, so I called the ob and if I wasn't better I would go see him today, but thank God I'm a little better and she is starting to move more again. God is good!
I talked to Lili yesterday, no baby yet, she has a a u/s and doc appt today. She is having some mild af like cramps, so I think she is getting close.
Love Renee
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Well I am now going to the Dr. every 2 weeks. I went today to have the glucose testing done. hopefully it will be okay so i do not have to change the way i eat!!
little guy is sure moving a lot. i measured at 28 cm this morning when i am only like 26 1/2. she did not say it was a bad thing though. i am happy that i have only gained 4 pounds from last month to this one. last month i had gained 11 pounds!! i do not need to keep gaining that much ever month!

Les23, I'm also starting to go to the ob every two weeks, that just means we are getting closer.
Love Renee
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Hi everyone this is my first time on this board.

I just wanted to say to Jess sorry foryour loss. I have gone through fertility off and on for 5 years. I have been pregnate 7 times. I have a daughter who will be 3 on 1/3/08 and im 29 weeks no. I have lost 5 to m/c ranging anywhere from 6weeks-14weeks.

Shan that makes us due around the same time i am scheduled for my c-section on 2/13/08.

Shara i know the feeling i have been on limited physical activity from 3weeks-24weeks and full bed rest at 24 weeks until i have this baby. I have already went into premature labor once.

Well good luck to all!

Hi Ladies

RNORST
I am doing a lot better. I don't look at it as a problem even though it is a pain, but as a sign. With my twins, I was going and going and didn't pay any attention to myself. Now I have an opportunity to do so!! I much happier about it but this bedrest thing sucks on all levels LOL!!!!

Bdantonio
I am in the same boat with you- I am not doing anything until this baby makes an appearance. With my dd, I was on bedrest the same way (go Figure) right around Thanksgiving and Christmas lol!! I am just acting like the queen of the castle- Good Luck on your bedrest!

Hi Ladies,


I just received an email from Lili, she had her U/S and they think her baby is around 8lbs or so, she wants to be induced on Sunday so thats when she will have her baby! good luck Lili..

I am very excited to say that I will finally get to see and hold my son tomorrow morning, its very emotional knowing that after the long journey and everything I have gone through I finally made it.... :)

Take care ladies thanks for all your support I will check back in after my 4 day stay at the hospital...

Wishing all of you healthy and happy babies!

Alexa

Alexa, Good luck, I will be think of you tomorrow. What time is your c-section?

Love Renee
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jesswantsafamily-I'm so sorry for your loss girl:( Keep your chin up and keep praying to God to let you have a baby when HE is ready. God will bless you with a baby again, just try and stay positive and give it another go. You're in my prayers:)

Alexa-Hey girl!!! Tomorrow is the big day for you!!! I'm so excited for you! Soon you'll be holding that beautiful baby boy in your arms:) God bless you and good luck tomorrow. You're in my prayers!! Keep in touch:) Thanks for keeping us updated on Lili, tell her good luck for us:)

Shara-glad to see you're doing ok. Stay rested and keep baking that little bun in your oven:)

Welcome all newbies and good luck during your pregnancy's!!!:)

Well, I went to my doc on Tuesday and he said I'm closed but my cervixs is very soft which is good news. I'm not sure if he tried to rupture my membraines or not, but DAMN!!! It hurt like hell when he went up there to check me!!! He was up there twisting and moving his hand all over the place up there!!! My sister thinks he may have tried to rupture my membraines. He said he realizes I'm in a lot of pain and some women have great pregnancy's and others have bad ones, and I'm at that point where it's bad:( He said he's not going to make me go full term and we're going to take it week by week now and really keep an eye on my blood pressure. So hopefully I'll have some good news with in a few weeks. He thinks the baby is around 6lbs already so I'm ready for him to come. This morning I had this gross looking glob in my underware, not sure if it was my mucus plug or not.... I guess I'll just wait and see if I have anymore come out or not.

Hope everyone is doing well. Talk to you later.

Jess