Post here when feeling depressed
20 Replies
fiestebrown - August 9

I am feeling so depressed right now. A guy that I went out with a couple of times and he is also my co-worker got married last April and him has his wife have a 4 month old now. I just saw the pictures of him holding his son and his baby boy is simply georgeous and sooooo precious.

I feel like crying and I feel like I am going to throw up. I can't even get my new husband to hardly have sex with me. For those of you who have not read my other story go here

http://sharedjourney.com/yabbse/
So_disappointed-15-1-2811-0.html



I
know we have not been married long and I am trying to be patient but it is so hard not to get depressed. :'(
I don't have anyone that can relate to this but you guys, i just need cyber hugs right now. I wish everyone the best!!!!!

 

lili246 - August 11

Fiestebrown=
I am depressed right now because for a minute I thought I was PG, but after I tested and got BFN and then AF came I got dissapointed.

So don;t worry and keep on trying. Have you talked to your husband yet and got things straighten out. Good Luck and yes, a child in the house is the most happiest thing on earth!

Don't worry your turn will come soon. The feel the same way when I see friends that have their second child. For some reason some womens are so easy to get pregnant and other like me it's so hard that takes lots of time.

-Lili

 

fiestebrown - August 11

Im sorry Lili, I am feeling a lot better now than I was that day. I even saw a coworkers grandbaby and I didn't get depressed.

Lili how long have you been trying, have you had an exam to see if there are complications?

 

lili246 - August 11

Well I have one 23 month old boy, I had difficulty getting pregnant with him, so I had this lady give me some herb medicine and it did help because here he is my son which is tha happiness of the house.

And now that I am trying for my second one it's hard again. I've benn taking Ovulex, going to start with my second bottle and hope it helps, if not I am planning to go back with that lady and get another herb treatment (medication) and see if it helps again.

No, I haven't seen any doctor about my problem!
I guess it just me that I am not that easy to get pregnant, when other ladies get pregnant fast.

I have faith and will wait my turn!

-Lili

 

Megz - August 12

I have to say that I have not been very depressed..until now. For some reason every little thing people say to be is making me mad or upsetting me somehow. I mean I should be happy, I get my first IUI on the 24th or 25th. But I guess everything has just become very real to me. My DH and I are arguing off and on about how he is going to give his "sample", people at work dont understand why I dont know the exact day I will take off, and I am soooo damn tired of bloodwork. I just really wish that we were able to conceive naturally. I am sure everyone feels that way so it is not just me but sometimes I feel like it is. I just keep praying that everything works out for the best.

Thanks all for letting me vent, I think I may feel a little better already.

Best wishes to all.
Megz

 

grandmaof2 - August 12

Hello ladies how are you all?
I have been depressed for about 4 to 5 yrs now.

1st.My only son got him a girlfriend and then she got pg and he moved out of our home to live with her to raise the baby. Don't get me wrong I was very happy becuase my grandson was coming but then I was losing my little boy. I always wanted him to have his family but it came so fast.

2nd.Then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tug a war started and every thing I said she turned it around because she claimed that my son is a mammas boy. Now I only see him about once or twice every few months, he works out of state with her father and so when he comes in to town it is all about her and so I am put to the side which i understand and so I just go with the flow. I just can't believe how we raise our children and then in a blink of an eye they are grown and out the door.

3rd.My husband works out of state also so I see him about once a month (if i am lucky) but the bad thing is that I could be with him on the road because we do not have small children, but my father needs me here to take care of him and my little sister that he has custody of due to CPS taking her from her mom due to drugs. My husband is so understanding and tells me that I need to stay by my father to help him with his bills and my sister so I do.

Not one day goes by with out shedding tears for one reason or another and the sad thing is that the rest of my family does not even see it, all I hear is about their problems and I just go with the flow and keep silent about mine.

I agree with all of you that this is an awsome circle of friends so thank you all so much and best wishes to you all

Remember to smile and take a deep breathe in the morning while watching the sun rise it will make you feel like there is no one else on earth but you


 

grandmaof2 - August 12

OOPS and I forgot to mention that 13 people that i know are having babys all this year some have been born and the rest are on the way. One couple asked my husband and I if we could baptize their baby girl, and we are in about three months so I have to put on a smile that day.

 

fiestebrown - August 13

Lili what kind of herbs were they, how long did it take for you to get pregnant after you took them? Were they cheaper than ovulex?


[quote author=lili246 link=board=4;threadid=2837;start=0#23936 date=1155321075]
Well I have one 23 month old boy, I had difficulty getting pregnant with him, so I had this lady give me some herb medicine and it did help because here he is my son which is tha happiness of the house.

And now that I am trying for my second one it's hard again. I've benn taking Ovulex, going to start with my second bottle and hope it helps, if not I am planning to go back with that lady and get another herb treatment (medication) and see if it helps again.

No, I haven't seen any doctor about my problem!
I guess it just me that I am not that easy to get pregnant, when other ladies get pregnant fast.

I have faith and will wait my turn!

-Lili

[/quote]

 

fiestebrown - August 13


Wow, sounds like you have a lot of stress going on. Try to stay a calm (yes, I know its hard), but I heard stress has a significant role in conceiving or not.
[quote author=grandmaof2 link=board=4;threadid=2837;start=0#23960 date=1155351481]
Hello ladies how are you all?
I have been depressed for about 4 to 5 yrs now.

1st.My only son got him a girlfriend and then she got pg and he moved out of our home to live with her to raise the baby. Don't get me wrong I was very happy becuase my grandson was coming but then I was losing my little boy. I always wanted him to have his family but it came so fast.

2nd.Then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law tug a war started and every thing I said she turned it around because she claimed that my son is a mammas boy. Now I only see him about once or twice every few months, he works out of state with her father and so when he comes in to town it is all about her and so I am put to the side which i understand and so I just go with the flow. I just can't believe how we raise our children and then in a blink of an eye they are grown and out the door.

3rd.My husband works out of state also so I see him about once a month (if i am lucky) but the bad thing is that I could be with him on the road because we do not have small children, but my father needs me here to take care of him and my little sister that he has custody of due to CPS taking her from her mom due to drugs. My husband is so understanding and tells me that I need to stay by my father to help him with his bills and my sister so I do.

Not one day goes by with out shedding tears for one reason or another and the sad thing is that the rest of my family does not even see it, all I hear is about their problems and I just go with the flow and keep silent about mine.

I agree with all of you that this is an awsome circle of friends so thank you all so much and best wishes to you all

Remember to smile and take a deep breathe in the morning while watching the sun rise it will make you feel like there is no one else on earth but you



[/quote]

 

lili246 - August 14

Fiestebrown,

I really don;t know what kinda of herbs were they. I was something that the lady made, who knows what they were. But I have the other medications that she gave me to drink. One of them it's called Lyndia Pinkham, the other Ovaritec, and this other that says Globulo Rojo which I think it's in spanish.

I took them for about 1-1/2 and I got pregnant. The whole medication was for $400.00. Which is not bad if there is a garantee. I really don;t care paying that much if it going to be a garantee for the second time. But I wanted to give ovulex a try for 3 months and if no success I will try to find that lady again and get the med. again from her.

Well I am finish with AF and I will do my best to have a success story this month.

I'll keep praying and please all of you friends, keep the faith and don't give up. God knows when our turn will be.

Best Wishes!

-Lili

 

Mist - August 15

Hi Ladies,

I guess I shall joing this discussion today. I am really depressed! My job really is giving me fits and I have a hard time being stress free, and well that is a major part of having conception occur. So I am leaving town tonite for two days (which is my ovulation time) and try to let my hair down and try to get a little stress free time!

Last time I left town I came home pregnant so I am hoping it works again. It's always good to get away sometime and its been a really long time for me.

I totally feel all of your pain in TTC its been a major battle here. Boy all the years of trying not get pregnant and now that I want to I can't. that is really depressing but I have it in my heart that I will conqure this and so will you ladies keep praying and keep the faith!

Love Yas

Mist

 

lili246 - August 15

Mist,
Hope that this time you come home pregnant again. I wish you the best and hope that you get all that stress out.

Take Care

-Lili

 

Mist - August 20

lili246


Thanks for the kind words! I feel more at ease now that I am back! Although I have a new puppy now and wow its really like having a baby lol. I am not joking wow I never knew a new puppy could change your life well
I am on cd 20 so lets see what happens!

I wish all of you ladies pregnancy this month!

Keep the Faith!

Misti

 

lili246 - August 21

Thanks Misti!
Yeah I hope we get good news this month. Hope that you feel better. I am getting a cold and that is not too exciting.

Take Care

-Lili

 

Mist - August 21

Lili,

Sure hope you get to feeling better soon! I will let you know if I have any news but I don't feel any different so I dunno I am on cd 21

Mist

 

lili246 - August 25

I am feeling so depressed now that i got the news that one of my friends is almost 4 months pg, she planned everything so fast that she got pg that easy, and us that we have been planning for months and months with no luck. I just feel like that I am not good at this. I really need to get pregnant I want a second baby! I hope god listens to me and bless me soon!

-Lili

 

grandmaof2 - August 25

HI every one how are you all.
While I was at work today a Patient came to see if she was PG. Well she was and just had a 6 mth old baby boy. Talk about hurting. >:( >:(
I am happy for her but then sad at the same time.

Best Wishes and Good Health

 

Message:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.




Forgot your password?
Need Help?  
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?  
Ask a Question