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babybop,
I'm so sad that you are in the situation that you are in right now I know it's hard but I think you should be there for your cousin. If it's really unbearable then maybe you should tell her in a nice way that you can't handle it. How old is your cousin? I was 18 and unmarried when I had my first child and it wasn't easy thats why I feel bad for her also. Do you think she would be willing to give the baby up for adoption? I have a few people who are going through the same thing that you guys are and what I was going through that would love a healthy newborn to call their own. Do you think she would be willing to do something like that? I would be happy to give you some contacts for her to get in touch with.
Thanks and God Bless
babybop,
Remember that God puts us in certain situations for a reason.
God Bless you and your cousin and much much baby dust!
~Honey~
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Good evening Ladies.......
Thanks Amber for the support I feel better, like maybe this is working for me ....
I love this board!!! You all are so wonderful...i just can't say it enough that I am so glad to have found this board. I have looked at alot of sites and this is by far the BEST!
I wish you all Luck BFN's all around!!!!!
Feel free to IM me or email ...I think this support system is exactly what i needed!!!!!!
~Stacey
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Amie-
I have been on ovulex 15 days now... some noticable changes no sign of AF yet.....good or bad not sure.. I am glad i tried ovulex though....seen alot of good results from others here.....hopefully I get good results too....everything i can cross i have crossed that this works for me and the rest of us!!!!!!
Baby Dust to everyone !!!!!!!
~stacey
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One more thing ..........sorry
been on ovulex 15 days ....when is a good time to test without getting disappointed??? I am jumping the gun and wishing i am one of the lucky ones that get pg right away on the first month of taking it............................
Thanks ..............
I am going to bed now ....too much baby on the brain tonight i guess.........
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Good Morning Ladies, :-\
I am thinking about not taking ovulex anymore once I finish this bottle I'm on. I ordered 2 months supply and I think I'm just gonna enjoy my daughter that's already here. TTC is so much work, its also putting a damper in my marriage, we don't really have fun anymore all we seem to talk about is a newborn.All of our friends had and are having babies this fall/winter, its just so depressing, I don't know what to do. Iwill give clomid a try and after that I don't think I will try anymore, sorry ladies just super depressed...... have a great day and BABY DUST to All!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Lynn~ Are you late for AF yet? I know that Ovulex delays some people's cycles, but it didn't delay mine the first month. If it was me, I would probably wait maybe 4 days after AF was due (because occasionally I will have late AF's) and then test. But maybe some of the others who had delayed cycles have other advice. In any case, GL!
ECarroll~ Have you ever thought about adopting? My DH and I were planning on it even before we started ttc. We hope to have some children of our own and adopt some, probably when we get a little older. Adoption is every bit as exciting as pregnancy (in my humble opinion) and there are many programs which will give out grants to help cover adoption costs. Plus you can give a child a good home. And you wouldn't have to deal with the stress of ttc if you don't want to anymore. It's definitely a personal choice, but just something to think about.
AF will probably show up in 3 or 4 days if she's coming. I'm starting to get nervous, I really don't want to see her again.
GL and baby dust to everyone!
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I am so irregular ...i have no idea when i am due ..My last AF was feb27th...so?? She comes when she wants to stays for as long as she wants sometimes ....I have the case of a really bad MIL...LOL..j/k..(not all are bad)
~stacey
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Ecarroll,
I was talking to a lady from my church yesterday, and she knows what I'm going though. She reminded me of a verse in the Bible, where it said, Blessed are the women whos quever is full of children. God wants to bless us with children until we are satified with as many as we want, and He wants to bless us with them but when we don't trust in Him, the devil comes and stills those blessings from us. Keep your head up, I know its very hard, but we just need to believe. She also reminded me of the story of the farmer that goes out and plants some corn. He plants it and believes that it will come up, so he goes home and sleeps (which mean he was RESTING) or (RESTING IN THE LORD). He goes back and checks on the corn and he sees progress. Since he believed in the Lord and rested in Him, he sees the harvest or the reward.
Leslieann,
Lets help each other keep postive. 98.5 is still pretty high. What was you temp. this morning? Did your cramps and back ache go way? This morning I cramped a little off and on, its gone now. My temp. yesterday was 98.5, and today 98.9, hope it can stay high. I still have symptoms of sore heavy boob and still peeing alot. Have you had any more symptoms?
Renee
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ECarroll~ I was thinking about what I posted and I hope you didn't take it the wrong way. I am in no way saying you should go try to adopt because it's easier than ttc. I just suggested it because it's an alternative which might be less stressful for you. But you should definitely decide whether you are ready to stop ttc or not first. If you are just having a "down" day, don't give up and keep trying. There are days when I feel like it's totally hopeless but I tell myself I can't give up. There are so many things I would never have accomplished in life if I had given up every time things were hard or took a long time. But I think that if ttc is really burdening you to the point that you're worried about your marriage, and you honestly want to stop, adoption could be a great option for you.
Renee~ I've had some symptoms still in the last few days, I'm trying not to think about it too much so I don't test too early (like I usually do). I'm still having some tenderness in my bbs, I get so hungry that my stomach growls all the time (that hasn't happened to me since I was about 12 or 13, I just don't have the appetite I used to), and I'm still having cramps and backaches, but less severe today. I'm not sure what to think. My temps are still around 98.5. Your symptoms sound promising, hopefully this month is your month!
GL to everyone! This board is overdue for a few BFP's! It's bound to happen for someone pretty soon!
Leslie
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Leslieann and Renee,
Thank you all so much for the encouragement, its just that I feel my marriage is on the rocks, I love my dh but I feel worthless sometimes because I haven't given him a baby.
Renee -I trust and believe in the Lord with all my heart, and I know he does everything for a reason and at his time. Maybe I just need to wait on the Lord. Thank you so much for the much needed encourgement!!
Leslie - We have considered adoption, but my dh wants a child of his on,and I feel terrible, we have been trying for 4 yrs. I just need to do some serious praying and listen to the Lord. Thank you for listening Les, I really appreciate it!!
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GUESS WHAT?
Just in case any one was wondering......... I had to change my ticker because I'm not as far along as I thought I was. I went to 2 different appointments and they tried to hear my babies heart beat and they couldn't find it. I was scared at first but then my doc. ordered an ultrasound. They measured my little angel and what do you know I'm only 9 weeks. Thats why they couldn't hear the heart because it's too early. Anywho..... they let me hear the heart through the ultrsound machine! It was great. But now I have to be preggo a little longer which kinda sucks but hey who complaining? LOL
Baby dust to all!
God bless!
~Honey~
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lynn52377,
I waited to test until I felt something wasn't right. I was about 2 1/2 weeks late for AF and my BB's were very big. I tested because I couldn't wait any longer and here I am 9 wks preggo and counting. I think you should test whenever you want it's just better to wait sometimes. And if you get that BFN just test again in another couple weeks if AF still isn't there. I have faith in you! Go for it girl! LOL
Baby dust!
~Honey~
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Congrats! Honey
To a healthy and happy pregnancy!
~stacey
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ambersparkle,
I get paid this coming Monday so expect your little package that week.
Can you remind me though that day because my memory kinda sucks right about now! Thanks
Send a message to my email at work : [email protected]
Baby dust!
~Honey~
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ECarroll~ I know how you feel, sometimes I feel like I have failed in some way because DH is so excited about having children and I haven't given him a child yet. But it is in no way your fault that you haven't had a baby yet, and you are definitely not worthless. In fact, you are anything but worthless or you wouldn't be here, providing support for everyone and facing the challenges of life head on. And you haven't lost your faith through the whole journey, you've put your trust in God, which takes a very strong person.
Sometimes I think men just don't understand women when it comes to having a baby. It is really hard to talk about the way I feel with DH sometimes. He is a good man with a kind heart, but I just think that it's really hard for him to understand where I'm coming from. He says he wants a baby as much as I do, but I can't understand how he can act so nonchalant about it, and he can't understand why I'm heartbroken every month when AF shows up. But if you and your DH really love each other I have faith that you guys can work things out. It's hard though, I know.
If you ever need to vent, I am always willing to listen, and I'm pretty sure that there are many more on this board who would say the same. I am so glad I found this board, I came because of Ovulex, but it is about so much more than Ovulex now! You guys are all awesome.
God Bless,
Leslie
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Hi Girls,
Hows everyone doing?
I've read some of the comments that some of you have posted and I just want to say one thing. NEVER LOSE THE FAITH!! God will listen to you it just takes time!
If it didn't happen this month chances are that it might happen next month.
Ecarroll I know how you feel girl, but keep praying, never lose that faith that you have. Everyone with faith is a winner sooner or later! I just know how frustrated it gets at times but always be positive. you are not the only one going through this. We are with you because all of us are here for support from each other.
Even though I don't you, but I for sure know how you feel and the emotions you are going through. We are with you girl, just never lose that faith!!
God Bless You!
Girls,
My temp. has gone up to 97.6, 97.8, 98.1 to 98.4 so it seems like everyday it is going up. I am in CD 38 and no AF yet! YAY!
I am feeling kinda weird today. I feel a slightly side pain once in a while in my stomach. My boobs are starting to feel weird to. It seems like they are getting kinda hard. I hope this is a sign of PG. My CD is sometimes from 36 all the way to 49 so I can't tell if I am Blessed (PG) So I guess I am in the hardest time of waiting!
I will keep you all posted on what happens with me.
I Love you all and please never lose faith, keep praying and you'll be blessed sooner or later it just takes time!
We are all united one way or the other!
-baby Dust to al of US!
-Lili
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