Lili
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gavinsmommy - December 12

Hi Lili,

I am glad to hear your weekend was fine. I on the other hand am facing a huge challenge in my life right now. My mother is a heart patient and has been since 2000. She has a defibrillator to help her heart keep beating. It went off in April of this year but they said she recovered well from it. Well the past 2 days it has gone off again. In April they told us that there was really no more they could do for her except a heart transplant. She is very sick but not sick enough for that according to the doctors. They refused to put her on a list back then. We have no idea what the outcome is going to be right now but my dad told me he feels she won't be with us much longer. I don't know what to do. I am so heart broke over all of this. I just wanted to let you know that if you don't hear from me for awhile that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. I will try to keep you informed as much as I can, things are crazy right now here. Please keep her in your prayers if you don't mind. Take care of yourself and I will talk to you later.

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you.


((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))))

Helen

 

lili246 - December 12

Helen,
I am so sorry to hear that because you know that a mom is the most important thing someone can have. Don't worry if you don't write to me take care of her and look after her so that she can feel better. I don't understand doctors at times on something like this. I will defitnerlty keep her in my prayers and hope that she will live for many years to come. I will pray for her everyday when I pray for you aswell.
I hope that they can do something about it fast so that she can get better. I wish her the best and have faith she will be ok. I know how you must be feeling at the moment and understand you if you don't have the time to write back. I hope that god listen to my prayers and heal you mom. Keep ypurself strong and help your mom in the most you can she needs from you at this moment.
God bless your mom and your whole family!

Love you and I will be thinking of you all and praying for your mom.

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you.


((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))))))


Love you
Lili

 

gavinsmommy - December 14

Hi Lili,

I just wanted to pop on and give you and update. I am sorry it has been a couple of days, things have been crazy. My mom is in stable condition at this moment. She had another surgery again yesterday but there was a complication with a blood clot. They seemed to have pulled her through that for the moment so right now it is a waiting and praying game. She is very very sick with a severe heart condition so we don't know what is going to happen.

How are you doing? Any af yet? I sure hope so for your sake you have been through enough. I just want to tell you thank you for the gift you sent. I really appreciate it and so does my family. I have sent something to you so please let me know when you get it. It is a busy time of the year for the delivery service and I want to make sure you get it. I haven't forgotten about the pictures to send you. I promise I will get right on top of it as soon as it calms down here.

I really appreciate you being here for me right now. It means alot in times like this. Thank you.

Give yourself a big hug from me right now and I will keep you posted on how everything is. Please keep me posted on you also.

(((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust.

Love you Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 14

Helen,
I am prayin for your mom so hard so that she can go through this with no problem and that she lives many more years becuase I know how much you need her. I really hope that she goes through all this with good luck and she recuperates fast from it. I am always thinking of her and of you and your family as well.
Don't worry about the pictures send them to me when you have the time. I know that you are very busy right now and you don't have the time for that I totally understand and send them to me when you have time and when everything gets back to normal. It's no rush I know how stressful this might be for you right now.
Besides try to relax and stay positive god knows what he is doing and hopefully he will let youhave your mom for more years to come, it seems that you mom is a strong women from what you have said that this had been going on for years. I know that your mom can do it and she will have success. I will be praying for her.

I am happy that you recieve the gift. I hope that you enjoy it with your family. I know that it wasn't something that big but enough to enjoy and lil to appreciate but I will try to send you more things later on. You know with this christmas coming and having to pay my truck payment o just kills me at this time of the year..lol but here I am surviving and you now that money comes and goes so that is not a problem. I am happy that you recieve it and enjoy it. I wish I can send you more and I will in the near future.
You don't have to send me anything with your friendship is enough. You were here for me when I most needed you when I loss my baby and now I am here for you whenever you need me. if you need anything please let me know and I will be more than happy to help you.
My temps are still high yesturday they were at 98.7 and today they went down to 98.5 hopefully af shows up with the weekend. My temps have been high for a while and af should be showing very soon I hope. I can't wait this af seems taking forever. but I know that af#2 will be here faster I hope. I can't wait to start trying again.
But I am getting scared because I have known some women or heard stories that there have been alot of m/c this past months. The wife of a co-worker had a m/c this weekend and she was almost 3 months pregnant and she loss her baby. I am getting scared I think that I will wait till February to try again hopefully that bad luck has gone for good and we get lucky this new 2007 year.

I wish you the best for you and your family! I will be praying for your mom and don't worry if you can't write to me take your time and do your things first. Just keep in time once in a while just to make sure everything is ok.

(((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust!

Love you Helen,

~Lili

 

gavinsmommy - December 15

Hi Lili,

How are you today?? Any darn af yet?? I know you are probably tired of being asked.

My mom is doing better, she may come home this weekend. Thank you for your prayers.

I think you will be fine to try after your second cycle. Please don't let the fear take over you and keep you from your unborn child. I know the fear can become over powering I went through that myself. Please just keep believeing it will be alright. I think the reason you are hearing more about m/c is because you have gone through one yourself. It is kind of like seeing all the pregnant women when you are ttc. There seems to be more for some reason but all it is , is that you just notice it more because of your situation. You will be fine.

I wanted to send you this special gift because it is something that we will have between the 2 of us. I really hope you enjoy it.

I will talk to you later , I hope all is well.

(((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you!!!!

Love ya girl,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 15

Helen,
I am glad that your mom is feeling better. Thank God he listen to my prayers. I hope she feels better day by day, you'll see. I know that you mom is a very strong women and she will be ok. Have faith!

Well guess what I have great news!!
Af showed up this morning! YAY!
So this means that I can count that as 1 out of 2, wow atleast half way and can't wait for af#2 I know that with my patient it will come soon. Well I have to get over this one first ha..lol
So yeah I am half way and I will keep being patient. Thanks for thinking of me, it doesn't bother me at all if you ask each day it actually makes me feel good that someone cares about me. I also care about you Helen.

Thank you for the gift I will tell you when I recieve it.

So it's friday today and two days off. I will try to finish my christmas shopping..lol I don't want to be at a rush at the last minute..o wow it's the last minute ha, christmas is around the corner. I hate the crowds at the malls because my son wants to be walking all the time but I get scare that he might get lost so I make him stay in his stroller.

Well have a great weekend, take good care of yourself, you kids, dh, and your mom.

(((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you!!!!

Love ya girl,

Lili

 

gavinsmommy - December 18

Hi Lili,

I am so glad to hear from you. I was just thinking about you. I am better now. My mom came home this weekend. They are going to try some different medication with her now that she has had the surgery. I sure hope it works and makes her life a little easier. How are you doing? Did you get your shopping done this weekend? I still have some to do so I guess I will be out last minuting. LOL How was your weekend besides being to short? I had kind of a rough one because poor Emily the 3 year old twin ended up with an inner ear infection and an earache. She has an appointment today at 5:30. Why does it always seem that everybody gets sick even the dog when the doctors are away? LOL I guess so things are harder.LOL

I will talk to you later, you take care of your family and yourself.

((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))

mega healthy, extra sticky baby dust to you!!!
Love ya LIli,

Helen

P.S. I was sending this to your email but for some reason I am having trouble sending mail right now. Take care.

 

gavinsmommy - December 18

Lili,

Congrats on af !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! One down and one to go!!!!! WHooo Hooooo!!! How is she treating you this time?? I hope all is going smoothly!!!!! :) :) :) :)

Love ya Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 18

Helen,
Thank you well not bad at all. I started on friday and had it on saturday and sunday but today is very very light not even nothing, barely spotting. I got kinda worry because my af's would be for 6 to 7 days long and very heavy for four days atleast. But this time I thought that it was finish because I didn't see anything this mroning and but then started spotting alittle so I hope that my m/c doesn't change my cycle I mean af, or maybe it will I am not sure but I know that it might happen. I will let you know what happens but I still have af and it's not that bad, no cramps or anything I was prepared with my advil since friday..lol

I am very happy that I am half way and this is 1 of 2 I still have one more to go and then I start trying again, that is great and went by fast hope that af#2 comes soon so that I can start can't wait..

So how is the family is everything ok?howz your mom doing hope that she is feeling better. I am praying for all of you. great that the surgery went well. I told you that she is a strong women and hopefully the new medication will help her and live life more easily. I am always thinking of you to, take good care and god bless your family.

I hope tha you lil girl feels better I know how bad it might get, having a child sick is the worst. I just hope that she gets some pain medication so that she can't suffer fromt hat terrible pain. I will be praying for your lil girl and hope she feels better.

((((((((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))))

mega healthy, extra sticky baby dust to you!!!

Love you Helen,

Lili

 

gavinsmommy - December 19

Hi Lili,

How are you today?? Is af still messing with you. I know when I had my first cycle after the m/c it was crazy also. I understand that everytime you have a baby or God forbid a m/c your cycle changes. It can be either longer or shorter. Mine was longer and worse then normal. I hope yours goes well for you.

My mom is staying the same right now. She is neither better or worse. I guess that is a good thing in a way. She is a very strong women and thank God for that. You just wonder how much someone can take though. I know everytime she gets sick she gets weaker. I am hoping the medicine helps her.

I am glad your af finally showed up for you, at least now you can get an idea of when you can start trying. Hopefully your cycles will be more regular for you this time. Keep taking your temps anyway so you can stay on top of af.

How is your Christmas shopping going? Have you finished yet? I still have to get some more things. UGH!! I guess I will be a last minuter anyway!! I tried! LOL I still have all the wrapping to do also. Where is the time going?? LOL It is not easy being Santa's elf. :)

I took the girls to the doctor yesterday and Emily had what the doctor called a full blown ear infection. He said I was lucky to have gotten her in while I did or it would have got bad really fast. Holly has an upper respiratory infection also. I left the pharmacist with 6 bottles of medicine and some candy for my patients. LOL I swear being a mom you have to do it all. Don't you agree? Hopefully they will be better before Christmas so they can enjoy the day.

I just want to let you know that your package is scheduled to be delivered for tomorrow. I hope you get it with no troubles and that you enjoy it.

I will talk to you later. You take care of yourself and that lovely family of yours.

((((((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else!!!!

Love ya Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 19

Helen,
You are a such a wonderful women and you shouldn't send me anything. I know that you are very busy with your mom and your children. I know it gets hard at time when someone in the family gets sick. Thank you so much for everything you had lead me through the correct way and have help me out of that deep darl hole I was in. You are such a good friend and I thank you for that.
I do agree with you that being a mom you have to do it all and it gets hard at times and don't know what to do but thank god that god is here for us to help us ge through the good and bad times.
I wish that you kids get well soon so that they can enjoy the christmas holiday. I hope that my son stays healthy and enjoy the wonderful days as well.

Yeah this time my af was for only 4 days like I say it was for 6 to 7 days before and now just 4. I hope that everything is ok with me and there's no problem when I start trying again.
When I had my son I bleed alot and last for a long time as well. The my cycle went back to normal my 6 to 7 days. But I had never had s hort af before and this kinda worries me, I hope that it can be this was short all the time but with no problems.
I will continue taking my temps. so that I can have an idea of when af will come and be prepared. Since I would O usually around CD 26 or close to that maybe I will O earlier since my af was short, well who knows hope that everything is ok with me and there's no problem.
I am all ready for the christmas eve dinner we actually celebrate and make our dinner in christmas eve and open our presents that night. What about you?
So hopefully we will have some company coming over and that will be nice. We are planning for our dinner and we are all ready. I just need some gifts for my boss and just a very few for other people that I may buy them something. But the important people are all taken care of. My son is very excited he wants to open all the presents so just to make our tree more happy I wrapped my son alot of presents one toy in each box so that it would make more presents for him..lol

I can't wait till I start trying again and that is getting closer one more af and then here I go again. It should go fast with the holidays.
How are you doing? Any good news?

I wish that you mom feels better and hope that the medication helps her for sure. Aswell with your kids hope they feel better and get well soon.

Take good care and best wishes for this new year 2007! Hope that all your dreams come true.

((((((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else!!!! as well.

Also take good care of everyone in your family!

I am always thinking of you and hope that all is well.

Love you Helen and thanks for being here!

Lili :)


 

gavinsmommy - December 20

Hi Lili,

I am glad you liked the pictures. I still have to get you the one of Holly. I know what you mean about putting a face to a name. It is comforting to see the person you are speaking to. Yes, the twins are one of each. They are different from head to toe. Gavin is much taller with blond hair and blue eyes and is more laid back. Emily is smaller with a darker complexion, blues eyes and dark brown hair. If you look at them, in a way they look like each other. If I did see each one of them born I would swear I had the wrong kids. LOL Hopefully you will end up with twins also. They are as much fun as they are work. :)

Well guess what, they both woke up this morning with the stomach flu. I have been running in circles all day. I went to pick Holly up from school and the one mother said that she sent her granddaughter to school even though she was vomiting. I saw red!!! I couldn't believe her negligence. It is because of people like that my children and everybody else are sick. Sick children belong home and being cared for, not in school. The hard part it that Emily and Gavin are to young to understand what vomiting is and I have been cleaning the house from one end to the other. They have been getting it on everything. :( I am sorry to rant to you about this.

Your cycle will straighten out after this af. It might be your normal cycle now also. Who knows this might be better for you. You might even ovulate sooner, so keep on temping.

I am doing good so far despite the running in circles. I ovulated a 4 days ago. The only strange thing this time is that I had some spotting and then last night I had a gush of blood. Have you ever heard of anything like this?? I know there is ovulation bleeding and thats what I was thinking until that happened last night. So far it is back to just spotting. Who knows what is going on now. I feel like the devil is trying to wear me out by playing his games with me. That is why I have been praying harder everything goes back to normal. I beleive like you that if you have faith anything is possible.

I sure hope you and your family stay healthy for the holidays and the New Year. I have been planning my dinner also. We have some family stopping by as well. I do the same thing that you do as far as wrapping the gifts for the kids. It looks like they have more that way. We open our gifts now on Christmas day. We use to open them on Christmas Eve like you and your family but Holly (She is 6 now) knows about Santa and what day it is now. So we are back to being Santa. :)

One other good thing about Christmas this year is that it is on a Monday. That means a 3 day weekend for you. Hopefully you can enjoy every moment of it. I agree with you that this time of the year is the time that you look back and reflect on all that has gone on in our lives. I use to look forward to the New Year but now I worry, because at least I know what has passed from me and I don't know what is yet to come. I usually go one day at a time now. How about you?

Well I am going to check on my poor lil patients to see how they are. You take care of yourself and that lovely lil family. I pray like you that 2007 has nothing but great things in store for all of us.

(((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else!!!!

Love ya Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 20

Helen,
I agree with you in everything first of all it gets scary because a new year means alot of things some good and some bad, but lets keep positive and think that this new year will be nothing but good news. I hope that god listen to our prayers and protect our family more than ever. I try to live one day at a time just like you.
I wish you and your family the best with a healthy good year. Hope that all your dreams come true. :)

I am sorry that your childrens are not feeling good. I know how you are feeling about them vomiting all over the place they are just kids and don't know what to do at this point. I don't like when they get sick especially this time of the year, when you want to enjoy with your family and when someone is sick you kinda feel bad for them and hope that they enjoy the holiday as well. Hopefully they will feel better by christmas. I don't understand why there are some parents that send their kids to school when they are sick. They just get other children sick and that is not good.
How is your mom feeling? I hope that she is feeling better. I will be praying for her. :)

Well I hope that my next af gets back to normal or if it's going to change thats ok but I want to make sure that I am ok to concieve again. I know that after my m/c my cycle might of change, hopefully my next af will be regular. well see what happens the good thing is that I am half way and I will be trying sooner than I thought. Hopefully I will O earlier and then get af earlier if it's that way I should be trying again by the end of January so that is good. I can't wait to start trying again. I have hope and faith that I will be bless soon. God knows how much I want another baby and he will bless me sooner than I think. I will keep praying hard for me and for you. I did think of you and prayed for you when I went to church last time you are always in my mind. :)

I will send you some more picture next week of my lil santa..lol :) Did you get the card I send you?

I am glad because we are having a 3 day 1/2 because on friday we work just half day and have monday off so that will be nice. :) I can't wait, I just love christmas and looking forward to celebrate with my family!

I wish you the best for you and your family, hope that you enjoy the holiday and hope that your kids feel better take good care of them I know that you are a great mom and a great doctor and they will be ok..

(((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))))

Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else!!!!

Love, Lili

 

gavinsmommy - December 21

Hi Lili,

How are you today?I hope all is well with you and your family.

Has af disappeared yet? Shorter may be better this time, we shall see.

Well the twins are better today but Holly is sick now. I hope it clears before Christmas for all of us. I don't think I will be in the mood to cook if I have what they had. LOL Wish me luck that it bounces off. :) So do you have everything you need for your dinner yet? Are you cooking by yourself or is your mom helping? I hope you get some help so you don't burn out. What time do you get out of work tomorrow? I hope early so you can focus on yourself and family.

Well I am off to get some shopping done, hope I can finish it up today. I still have wrapping to do. I am such a bad elf. LOL I will some how get it together with the Grace of God. :)

I will talk to you later.

You take care of yourself and your wonderful family. Who knows before you know it you will have 3 like me!!! :)

(((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))
Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else. I hope we are all blessed finally with BFP's!!!

Love ya Lili,

Helen

 

lili246 - December 21

Helen,

Well yeah I'll see what happens with my next cycle. If they get shorter like last time that would be great. I think that af is gone completely. :)

Well I actually help my mom, she loves to cook and she always take care of all the cooking during the holidays, but this time I will be helping because we have company coming over so we have to make more food than usual.

That is too bad that all your children got sick. I hate it when one gets sick all of them have to get sick no matter what. Hopefully they are feeling better on christmas. Hope that you don't get sick. take good care of yourself so that you won't get sick.

My family is staying healthy at this point than god.:)

Well have a great day today and hope that you finish your shopping today. I am finish with that. :)

(((((((((((BIG HUGS AND HOPES)))))))))))))
Mega healthy sticky baby dust to you and everyone else.

Love ya Helen,

~Lili

 

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