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Tracy,
Hope that you get your miracle soon. All of us here are desiring the same thing and hope that we get bless soon. Try not to think about it that much and saty positive. I know that when af comes you get depressed because you might of thought that you might be pregnant but when she comes it changes everything. Have faith.

Lili

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Well, AF came today so no miracle this month. Thanks to all for the kind words. It just wasn't the right time for some reason.

Tracy

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Hi everyone! I know alot of you don't know me but, I just wanted to share some info. I have my 1st IUI done of Oct.14 and have b/w done on Oct.27. It was _ . My af arrived on Oct.29. Two days later I started taking my clomid! We I seen the dc on my 12 days on my cycle to see about doing another IUI, he told me he thought I was already pg because he seen a sag! When I went for another b/w it confirmed I was indeed pg! I was 6 weeks at that time! So ladies just be careful with the _ b/w. If you feel any pg sytoms tell you dc to do another b/w of you! I felt nausea but, thought it was my acid reflex. So please listen to your bodies!

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Tracy,
Don't give up! Have faith. You dream will come true sooner than you think. Keep trying and never give up!

Love, Lili

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Lili,

Thanks for the kind words, and I won't give up. What is going on with you? Where are you at in the wonderful cycle.

Tracy

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Tracy,
Well I was pregnant and loss my baby at 9 weeks and had a d&c done. It's been a month now and I have to wait two normal periods before I start trying again. I am waiting for period number one and it should be coming soon, I hope because I want to start trying again as soon as I can. I believe that it will be not until the middle of January.

I know how dissapointed you get when you see that bfn or when you get af, but we have to be strong and have faith because our turn will come soon.

Best wishes.

Lili

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Lili,

I too was pregnant and at 8 weeks they could only see the sac, no baby, so they also did a d&c. It is hard knowing that you were pregnant and now are have a rough time conceiving again. I had mine done in March and was just able to start the whole process again in Sept. It took me that long emotionally to be ready to try again.
It is harder for me because my husband is completely infertile with no explanation. We decided to go donor so I would be able to carry a child.

I wish you all the luck!!
Tracy

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Tracy,
so what actullay happen to you baby if the sac was there and no baby?

I know it is very hard but our babies are in better hands in heaven and from up there they will be giving us all the lucky baby dust they have. I am keeping positive that it will happen to me soon. I have faith!

I am sorry that your dh is infertile. So how does that donor thing works?

I just know that I can get pregnant because I have a healthy 2 year child and doctor said that I should try to concieve on my own without no ovulex pills because that is what I was taking on my last pregnancy.

I don't know what happen to my baby but when I went to the doctor we couldn't hear the heartbeat and I had an ultrasound and thats when they saw that his heart wasn't working.

I know it is very hard but we have to keep on going and pray for our lil angels.

Love,
Lili

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I am sooo sorry for your loss!! I know how it feels. Isn't it nice to talk to someone that understands. Everyone always says oh I understand, but in reality they don't.
From what my dr. says the sac will sometimes form and the baby never grows. I guess this is what happened in my situation.
With donor, I pick the donor from a cryobank with matching chacteristics as my dh. They put it through all the test and in storage for 6 months, then retest again. It comes prewashed like they do when you use your dh. It is amazing how many people you see that are using this method nowadays.
I will be thinking of you and wishing you lots of "baby dust".

Tracy

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Tracy,
Wow that really sounds interesting and I would never imagine they would do that. I am glad though because this way it lets people dreams come true. I am happy that they do that.

I am sorry for yous aswell. I don't understand why this things have to happen but if it was for a good reason then god knows why and we have to move on and be strong because it does hurt so much and would never want this to happen to anybody else.
I know that it does feel very good knowing that other ladies gone through this understand how you are feeling. I am happy that I found you because you know what I am talking about. But we want to keep on trying and try to concieve again and hopefully be lucky and get pregnant fast.
I hope that af comes soon so I can start trying again. Well I actually have to wait for two normal periods so I am barely waiting for af #1.
Hope that is comes soon.

I wish you the best and hope that you get bless soon.
Do you have any children?

Take good care and lots of healthy baby dust your way!

Love, Lili

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Lili,

I don't have any children and I think that is why this is so hard. Alot of people out there have them and are trying for second. I am 34 with no children. Imagine after waiting to what you think is the right time and finding out that you and your dh could not have any together. Me and my dh have been together for 13 years and was married 4 years ago.

Do you have any children? Can you believe that this is the one time you are waiting to get your AF. Did you also have IUI and are you using any medications?
Tracy

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Tracy,
I am one of those people that is trying to the second one. I do have a wondeful 2 year old boy and we are trying for baby #2.
I know it's wiered at this moment I want af to come and within a few months later I will not want af to come and get that bfp. I want to start trying again but I willl do what is recommended. I know that I still have in mind my recent loss and think if I ever get pregnant again if I am going to go through the same thing. It is very scary and hope that I get a heathy pregnancy next time.

I am 24 years old and I am living with my boyfriend I am not marry to him but I wish I could. I have been dating him for 10 years already yeah that means when I was 14 years old..lol and we have been living together for almost 4 years this january.

I am not using any medications at this moment nor I have never used any. I was taking some ovulex and I think it did help me but after my m/c I think that I cam not using it again. At this moment I am still blaming anything that comes across my mind and I want to try natural and that is what my doctor recommended. She said that I can get pregnant by myself without using anything else only my prenatals. So as soon as I start trying again I will try naturally and see what happens hopefully I can get pregnant fast.
My periods are so irregular ever since the first day I got af. So that makes it hard for me to know when I am most fertile. thats why I was using the temp. charting and drinking green tea so I can determine my cm.
That does really help and hope that it helps me when I start again.

Thank you so much for listening to me and I wish you the best and hope that you get bless with a lil one soon. Keep the faith and don't give up, youll be a mommy soon. Have faith with faith everything is possible.

Love Lili

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Hi everyone,

I am 25 years old and had my first IUI on June 18th 2010. According to my doctor nothing is wrong with me or my husband, we are both normal but however, the results were negative. Although there was inplantation it did not carry on. (Lizelle) I also had similar sypmtoms during this process, the meds and the proceudre actually triggers your body think you are pregnant FOR implantation, so I guess it is normal (according to the nurse). I remember feeling that way and I was hoping it was a good sign of being pregnant. Well I thought I'd share my experience with someone it gets hard and fustrating, but keep your heads up. I will be starting Gonal-F again in two weeks with a stronger dosage, I hope to God this time we get positive results. Good luck to all of you, and I hope to hear good results from all of you going through the same thing. All things are possible.

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Hi everyone,

I am 25 years old and had my first IUI on June 18th 2010. According to my doctor nothing is wrong with me or my husband, we are both normal but however, the results were negative. Although there was inplantation it did not carry on. (Lizelle) I also had similar sypmtoms during this process, the meds and the proceudre actually triggers your body think you are pregnant FOR implantation, so I guess it is normal (according to the nurse). I remember feeling that way and I was hoping it was a good sign of being pregnant. Well I thought I'd share my experience with someone it gets hard and fustrating, but keep your heads up. I will be starting Gonal-F again in two weeks with a stronger dosage, I hope to God this time we get positive results. Good luck to all of you, and I hope to hear good results from all of you going through the same thing. All things are possible.

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