COULD I BE PREGNANT PLEASE HELP!!
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Stacey85 - January 15

[b][/b][i][/i]SORRY I HAVE NOT POSTED FOR A WHILE WE MOVED HOUSE AND I HAVE JUST GOT INTERNET BACK IN TODAY! Here is the thing alot of my friends seem to think I'm pregnant I dont want to think that as so many false alarms already I'm sure you will understand, for those of you that dont know my dh and I decided to try for a family a year past in september we just stopped using contreception and expected it to happen :P! When we got nowhere with that we got the clear blue fertility moniter I went on Ovulex and he is on Ambroze that has been since November My cycle used to be between 32-34 days but since using Ovulex I now have a 28 day cycle we BD every other day during my fertile period I showed up as first day ovulating on the 3rd Jan CD 13 on fertility moniter and BD on second day of Ovulation CD 14 my period is due on fri but the last few days I have not felt right I have been urinating aroud 8+times per day every day felt totally exausted also totally run down and I have been very white everyday also I keep getting a strange sensation in m belly button?? What do you guys think any help would be greatly appreciated.

Stacey xxxxxx

 

liz - January 15

Stacey,

My biggest symptom when I got my bfp was tired! I was sooooooooooo exhausted I could barely stand up, I was taking naps every half hour, sleeping 9-10 hours at night and still tired! Some women don't seem to notice, for me it was unmistakable!

What cycle day are you on now? I did a hpt on 9dpo and it came back positive!

Best of luck to you!
Liz

 

Stacey85 - January 15

Hi liz I'm on cycle day 25 10 DPO

XXX

 

liz - January 15

Stacey,

I was actually 10dpo when I tested and got the positive. Sorry my memory was off by a day. I remember feeling the tiredness beginning on 8dpo and I was fighting taking an hpt because I knew how it could possibly inaccurate. Finally at 10dpo something told me to do it and I did. Now and behold it was positive!

I felt "different" then I had on previous failed cycles. Somehting was definatly not the same and my instinct told me I was pg!

Are you going to test early or wait till Friday? Do you have any other symptoms besides the tiredness and the frequent visits to the bathroom?

Liz

 

Stacey85 - January 15

Hi Liz,
Only other things are I'm quite bloated but have been on and off since taking Ovulex, My lower abdomen is crampy at times also i get a sharp pain at my belly button and my nipples seem alot larger, I dont know what to do regarding testing in some ways I dont know what else it can be other than pg but after trying for so long I feel like its not going to happened to me if that makes sence?

xxx

 

Stacey85 - January 15

Ment to say I have also been feeling slightly more hungry xxx

 

liz - January 15

Stacey,

I do know how you feel as far as not sure if you should test or not and also feeling like it will never happen. I have been there too!

Here is what my symptoms were (just to give you an idea)

*Very tired
*Very full, heavy breasts (due to the increase in progesterone)
*Af like cramps on and off (I would have sworn she was waiting right around the corner) My re later told me this is very common early in pregnancy.
*More hungry then normal

On previous cycles I had the full, heavy breasts but it went away about 4-5 days before af's unwanted arrival.

Liz

 

lili246 - January 15

Stacey,
I sure hope that you are pregnant girl. I wish you the best and hope that you are.
Liz is right there are tons os different symptoms.
Mine were very hungry and and went to the bathroom alot of times.
Maybe you should test early and see if you are. If not wait till you have missed your period and you'll see if you are. I sure hope that you are pregnant.
The best of Luck!

Love Lili

 

Stacey85 - January 16

Thank you so much for all your help,tried testing this morn was neg, will wait now and see if AF comes hope not but honestly thinkit will, if not will test again still feeling sooooo tired and running to loo all time also started getting dull pain/cramp in left side of my abdomen on and off ???. Lili how are things going with you I have followed your story and know it'll be a bfp for you soon, Liz I bet you can't wait for your little miracle.

xxxxxx

 

lili246 - January 16

Stacey,
Maybe it's to early to test if you got that bfn, don't give up and test again. If you are not pregnant this month you still have next month to try. :)
Just don't give up, hope that you are pregnant!

I am waiting for my af to come and it should be coming this week. Then I start trying again and hope that I concieve fast this time. I have so much faith and trust in god! :)

Thanks,

Love Lili

Best wishes!

 

liz - January 16

Stacey,

Please try not to lose the faith. I agree with Lili it may be too early to tell. When I tested positive on 10dpo it was luck and I definatly am not the majority.

Please please keep the faith and keep on trying. Your dream will come true if not this month another month, you will see.

Let us know how you make out.

Take care,
Liz

 

Stacey85 - January 18

Thank you so much for all your kind words, I think what worries me so much is I have never been preg and although dh and I weren't charting ovulation we we bd regular and can't help having in the back of my mind surley it something should've happened by now is ther something wrong with me will it ever happen, I know that it is a silly way to view it as for many people it is not that simple it is just like sometimes my mind goes in to overdrive and these thoughts take over! I start of my cycle every month feeling possitive and telling myself it will happen when it happens and also that I will not think adout it to much untill I miss my period but then when I get half way threw my 2ww it is all I can think about, what worries me so much is dh keeps saying to me if I keep thinking about it to much and want it to badly it will not happen but I cann't help it. I think what is also making so hard at the moment is I don't talk to my sister as I know this sounds bad she is down right evil she sexualy abused mine from age 4/12 set the family home on fire, has wrongly accused a number of men of rape or attempted rape and is a waiting going to court on a charge of attempted murder on my mum's fiancee after stabbing him multible times (i know this is a bit heavy and personal but felt I had to give you run down so you didn't think I was type of person just to turn my back on family) and yet she has a little girl 5yo she accidently fell prg with to one man twin girls coming up for 3 with another man again an accident and my mum tells me she has found out she is 9 weeks preg to another man accidently and is planning an abortion ( I have mixed feeling about this as in a way I feel this would be for the best as I feel terribly sorry for ones shes got already at what the are being brought up in and it is a shame for another life to be in the middle of this) the reason apart from explaining above I say this is she is very volitile she planned to have an abortion with the twins and never went on time then took drugs and was drinking heavily threw preg with them they ended up born early weighing only 2 & 3 pounds when they were born then left me with them supposidly for a weekend and didn't come back for them or to see them for 3 months in this time she moved miles away with her other young daughter to live with a man she met on an internet chatroom who then beat a man to an inch of his life in front of her wee girl who then was understandably trumatised also when she stabbed my mums fiancee the 3 children were in the house we went and collected the children the oldest of which was going on about blood all over the kitchen. The whole point of this is she is on bale pending the court case and although all this has happend social services have still left little ones with her, I just feel there are so many wonderful people deperate to be blessed with children that would provide a wonderful stable and loving home and then this evil person has them and this is how they are treated where is the justice.Sorry just had to talk to someone this was driving me crazy!!

Stacey xxxx

 

liz - January 18

Stacey,

I am so sorry to hear about your sister. I can relate on some level to what you are saying however I think you situation is a lot worse then mine could be. I am glad you were able to get it out and talk about it, sometimes just saying it or typing it in this case can really make one feel a whole lot better. You said your Sister is out on bail and she is pregnant, is that correct? If so I can't even imagine what must be going through your head right now. Does she have all her other children with her now? What happens to them if she gets sent to prision?

As for worrying so much about getting pregnant. This is normal and I think any women who has been ttc with difficulities can relate. I too would try to start out not putting so much stress on myself but as soon as I got to the 2ww it was over my mind was a mess and all I did was obsess.

Have you seen a doc regarding your difficulties at this point? I ask because after one full year of trying insurance companies are willing to pay for medical treatment into why you may not be conceiving or after 3 misciarriages. I know a lot of doctors do not want to talk to you until you have tried a year as well. As stupid as this rational of thinking is I found it to be very true.

I am so sorry for eveything thing you have been through, you have a lot on your plate. If you need anyone to talk to about please feel free to post, we are here for you.

Take care,
Liz

 

Stacey85 - January 19

Well af come full force today I' going to post something on bulletin board post as your thoughts please.

Stacey xxxxxx

 

Jess - February 1

Stacey85-what phycic did you use on-line and how much did she charge you??

 

lili246 - February 1

Stacey,
What happened? I am anxious to find out if you got that bfp! Let us know! Hope that you have good news!

Love Lili

 

Stacey85 - February 6

Hi Jess,
The psycic name is Zhohara and you get her at www.kasamba.com it cost me $170.81

xxx

 

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