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Its so nice to know there are other's out there that are feeling the same way I do. I am 29 yrs old and my youngest child is going to be 9 this year. I still feel there is something missing in my life. I am with a wonderful man that has no children of his own. We are trying to save money to have my tubal reversal. Anyone have any good advise about who to go to or what else I can do other then spend lots of $$$$$ to be able to have another child? |
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hi I had my tubes tied cut burned whatever you want to call it about 4 1/2 years ago. I am 32 and have been feeling a little different with my body. I have had my cycle normal but this month it is crazy How can I know that i am not pregnant or could it be premenapause please respond if you know what I am going through. I feel bloated dont want to eat and have been really tired . ??? :-[ |
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hi everyone, i'm 23 years old i've had 3 pregnancies 1 when i was 17 i miscarried and then had a lil boy when i was 20 and a lil girl at 22 after i had my c-section with my daughter i had my tubes tied. my husband and myself thought it was for the best. since then i've had problems i have hot flashes, my periods are 10 times worse and now i'm late with all the signs of being pregnant. i've taken 2 test they both was negitive but i'm getting bigger, and my belly looks just like i did when i was with child along with at times i feel like i'm being kicked. is it really possible to get pregnant? my dr. told me i would never be able to have kids again. and my husband thought he was suppost to cut the tubes so there would be no chance. please help i'm going crazy with no one to talk to about this. |
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HI! I WOULD LIKE TO SAY I am new here and that I ,TO HAD A TUBAL LIGATION DONE AFTER MY FOURTH CHILD. I'M MARRIED TO MY SOUL MATE we Have 1 Girl (9) and 1 Boy(3).... I know I at least wanted 2 boys and 2 girls.. . I have 2 other boys (that are from a previous marriage that are older) .. my husband AND HAVE BEEN MARRIED 10 YEARS NOW. IM 34 , MY HUSAND 35. WE Both THOUGHT OUR FAMILY WAS COMPLETE UNTILL I GOT REALLY DIPRESSED, DEEP INSIDE I FELT SAD AND ANGRY THAT I CAN NOT HAVE ANYMORE CHILDREN.... that i really knew i wanted to have but went threw with the Surgery anyway for Birth control.... I HAVE BEEN STRUGGLING W\ THIS DIPRESSION FOR A GOOD 3 YEARS AND COUNTING . I finally found this site [link]http://www.tubal.org/ovarian_isolation.htm [/link] I ASKED GOD TO FORGIVE ME FOR TAKING THE CONTROL OUT OF HIS HANDS AND TAKING IT IN TO MY OWN HANDS IN DETERMININIG HOW MANY KIDS I WOULD HAVE. I WAS WRONG . THE LORD KNOWS HOW MANY CHILDREN HE WANTS ME TO HAVE. I am trying to decide what to do now as everyone i see keeps telling me my problems are from DEPRESSION... and had i have known abotu the SIDE effects of a TL i would have never had it done.. I got the Tubal cause at the time i didnt want anymore kids and neither did my husband.... I come to realize now I do want another child mybe 2 that way we have 2 boys and 2 girls of our own.... but not sure if he does... I know and believe that my tubaligation has alot to do with what has been happening in out life and I just want it fixed... and want my life back... I have been sad and unhappy and angry.. alot and im sorry.. to all i have hurt.... |
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I am new to this site and I have to say that the possitive and God believing attitudes are a blessing to me. I am having the same thing right now as Jaquline I am leaving it up to the Lord. I too had a tubaligation 6 years ago after three beautiful children. I so desperatly want to have another child. I at the time was not where I am today with my walk with the Lord and took it upon myself to try and controll how many children I would have and I regret it and have prayed for forgiveness and hope that one day soon I may be blessed with another child. In fact I have an appointment today. I am on day 41 and have not had a period but my home test was negative. I feel in my heart that I am but I'M scared of the dissapointment that may follow. Please give me lots of prayer. :) |
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I am a 26yr.old with 2 beautiful little girls ages: 7 & 9 yrs. old. I just got engaged to my fiance on December 15,2006 but my wedding day would really be fulfilled if I could give him a baby. I had a tubaligation done 5yrs. ago when I thought that I wouldn't have anymore children because I had to raise those 2 by myself and I didn't want to have children by every man that I dated, so I thought that the best thing to do would be to have a tubaligation. My children ask me every day to give them a baby brother and I would if I could afford it but I can't. My life just isn't the same anymore and I have really been emotionally torn inside and out. 2 all you ladies out there and 2 the ladies messages that I have read I hope you all get what it is that you truly want and deserve cause I feel your pain. Don't give up on your ambitions. |
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hello everyone, i just wanted to share my story and my support. i had my tl 8 years ago, like some of you i was in a bad relationship and thought a tl was the best thing for me to do . i cried on the or table before they put me to sleep but went through with it because of the things that were going on in my life at the time. well 5 years ago i meet my new husband and he has no kids of his own but came in loving and accepting my two kids with open arms he has been daddy to them for 5 years now and he is all they know. my son is going to be 10 tuesday and my little girl is 8. well my husband came into the relationship knowing that i could not have any more babies put at the time loving us was enough for him. |
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Hi I'm new here and I'm looking for information. Does anyone have opinions on Dr Perez rio bravo mexico? And for those who have had a reversal how long did it take after the reversal to concieve? You can e-mail me directly. Thank you |
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Hello everybody im new to this so bare with me. I myself had a tubaligationin 1999 and now i am re married to a wonderful man who raises my three children and now we want a child of our own. I started the ivf procedure about three months ago and now i am on lupron waiting for day one of my cycle. Im getting very excited they say my retrival is on or around april 16th i can't wait....... I haven't had any side affects from it yet at least i don't think i did. Anyway i wish everybody good luck and hopefully i'll have somebody to talk to now... :) |
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I want to first thank you so much for letting God use you mightly to speak to women of Faith. Yes, we know the world has options to try and reverse the process but where does your faith really lie in the world or with God. I was so greatly encouraged by your email which I already know life is in God's hand and not man becuase even if you get a reversal if God does not put His hand on us to bless us with another child after taking matters in our own hands then it won't happen. Without faith it is impossible to please God and we can't waver or doubt. Look who we are talking about a God that created you and I and can He not open our womb again after we repent as you said for taking matters into our own hands. Thank you my Sister in Christ for such great encouragement as the Lord used you for all of us that will believe God for the IMPOSSIBLE!!!! I turned 40 and had a dream I was holding my son, I had a tubal ligation done not wanting any more children but if God so ordains me to have another child let it be done unto me and my husband which is always been my desire to have a son. God bless all of you richly who desire another child and stop listening to the world's advice and trust and believe God. Amen. |
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HI EVERYONE IT GOOD TO READ EVERYONES MESSAGES WELL BARE WITH ME I'M 35 AND I HAVE TWO KIDS FROM MY FIRST MARRIAGE AND DECIDED TO HAVE MY TUBAL DONE THE CAUSE WAS MY BAD RELATIONSHIP I HAD IT DONE IN 1998 AND FOUR YEARS AGO I MET MY SOUL MATE AND HE HAS TWO KIDS OF HIS OWN WHICH HIS EX DOES NOT LET HIM SEE THE KIDS NO MATTER WHAT AND WE WANT TO HAVE MORE BUT ITS JUST SO EXPENSIVE WE CANOT AFFORD IT I FEEL VERY DEPRESSED AND ANGRY AT MY SELF I PRAY TO GOD FOR A MIRACLE SO THAT I CAN HAVE MY HUSBANDS BABY I CRY ALL THE TIME IT IS SO SAD THAT I CANT GIVE HIM A BABY WE BOTH WANT ONE REALLY BAD HES SO GOOD TO MY KIDS HES LIKE A FATHER TO THEM MY KIDS BOTH LOVE HIM CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ADVICE CAUSE I'M SO TORN APART OVER THIS |
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Hi, Iwas reading your post and your situation is exactly the same as mine was. I had a tubal in 99' because I was in a bad relationship. A few years later I meet the love of my life who took me and my two kids in and we all love each other so much we've been together for six years now and he is all my kids know. He doesn't have any kids of his own so I knew one day that I was going to want to get my tubes untied. We were both working but it still seemed like we would never have the money to pay for the operation, in my town it starts out at $5000. But I had researched going to Mexico to have my reversal because cost was so much cheaper only around $2665 for everything. Well in February of this year we went to Mexico. we took a bus, took our tax money and left not having hardly any extra money with us but we set out on our adventure in Gods hand. We were going to do this and we weren't letting anything stop us. |
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First of congrats!! I am 30 years old and I have meet the man of my dreams. Now that we are engaged to be married the idea of him never becoming a father is too much for me to handle. I am planning on getting my reversal done in March by Dr. Roberto Perez. I live 15 hrs away and I am planning on driving there. What I would like to know is how did you feel after the surgery and if you have any advice for me. I am so nervous. :) |
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