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SilvernAngel679 - December 26th, 2006 10:35 AM

My husband and i have ben TTC for 2 years unofficially and for the last year very officially. but have been unsuccessful due to a very low sperm count. we think it's due to hypothyroidism but recent test indicate that the medication he's taking to improve his hormone levels are working on everything BUT his sperm count. it's still really early so nothing is conclusive yet but we've just had so much heartache about it all and it seems like an unfair and cruel joke especially when it's happening to every one around us. We're heartbroken and even though we know there are other options out there for us they seem very distant and only carry more waiting and heartache. And not to mention the fact that we really don't think any of it is affordable to us in the least. I'm so upset about it all and I just need a little comfort right now. So please, if any one can give me any consalation and hope that this might be over soon, please share it with me. All every one tells me anymore is that "It will happen when God's ready" Or "Just trust and have faith in God." Or "pray and everything will be ok." blah blah blah. I'm sick to my stomache hearing it all. No one REALLY understands what we're going through.


Kittie - December 26th, 2006 2:59 PM

Silvernangel

My heart goes out to you both, we have been TTC for nearly two years, and me for a further three before that with my first husband. Others do not understand what we all go through and the intense pain that goes with it. Here in the UK, it is Christmas and I found that I broke down in the Away in a Manager carol twice because it all hurts so much. I used to wish to that it would happen, now I find it helps just to pray that I can learn to live with it. There is no rhyme or reason for the infertility we experience in our marriage and the fairness of it all. But I do know that it is great to read the comfort offered by others and I wish ytou all the best. You are not alone!

Arabsrcool - January 8th, 2007 3:21 PM

Its easy for people who have not experienced infertility to make glib statements, not realizing all you want to do is punch them (and then have a good cry). Life is not fair, as proven so many times by people having chidren and more children, while others remain TTC. I feel your pain and can just say I hope things work out and if they don't, I hope you can find the strength to accept things as they are.

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