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chynnadoll my husband had the same problem! We were doing fine and as we miscarried and kept trying it became harder on him, things were fine then one month he couldn't achieve what was needed and I thought what is going on, he never had that problem before and each time it happened I started to get mad, which wasn't helping, but I knew what days we had to be together and I felt he was ruining our chances, I even became concerned that something medical was going on and I talked to him about it, he said he felt it was stress. Sometimes he was ok, but not fully where he should be but he still was able to achieve what was needed and I didnt' think it would happen, but I am 26 weeks pregnant and he hasn't had the problem since, so I know it was the stress and it is hard on them because they know it's up to them to make it happen and its hard to make it enjoyable after so long of trying it becomes a chore. my only advice is to not to tell him hey its baby night, just act like you are in the mood and let it happen, It is very frustrating to us, but I felt bad for the pressure he was under. Things will work out!
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