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hi, i dont know what to tell u but i know how u feel i have three grown children and never had a miscarriage until after my tubal reversal i was 32 years old when i had it done my youngest daughter was 11 years old at the time now she is 18 and i have been pregnant six times since my reversal and lost them at four to six weeks i have had all kind of tests done and nothing can be found except low progestrone which i took orally with this last one but it didnt help i dont have any trouble conceiving it is just keeping them and i am 39 now so i dont have a lot of time left to keep trying if u find anything new to try please let me know and dont give up sorry for the loss of your babe also. |
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I had a TR last May. It was an extremely painful surgery for which I wasn't prepared. I took a break for a few months & in Nov 05 got pregnant. At 16 weeks I lost the baby. It was determined that the baby had a disorder called Turners Syndrome. What a terrible experince that was! I got pregnant again 2 months later. I have now been bleeding for 2 days. I have an appointment with the DR tomorrow. I can only assume it is another miscarriage. I had 3 children in my early-mid 20's with no problems at all. I will 38 next month. I am so upset.............................. |
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I guess even though everyone has been through a great deal, and you would like to give up on the idea you dont. I wanted a tubal reversal for a very long time and seized the oppurtunity(sp?) when I had the chance. Even though I have lost babies, I am very honored for the fact that I "felt" and loved them in the first place. I can honestly say that I would not trade any part of my life even now, for nothing. This is what makes us better and wiser and being who we are. |
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thanks for posting that it made me feel better . how r u doing now ? have u been back to your dr. yet? do they know why u lost the babe ? keep trying and good luck. |
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sharon , let us know what the dr. says about u also, keep in touch ok? |
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I did go yesturday a.m. I am more upset & confussed. The placenta is still there but the dr said he didn't see a strong heart beat. He wanted to schedule me for a d&c. The crazy thing is that i have completely stopped bleeding for the last 24 hours. I don't know if this meas there is still hope. I have been reading stories of so many where there was bleeding & they went on to have a healthy baby. I am just 6 weeks maybe that is too soon to see the heart beat. I am just sick & I want closure but I don't want to act too soon. |
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:)dont have the d and c yet , its too early just wait and see what happens, go to misdiagnosed miscarriages and read the stories on there they are awesome good luck and keep us posted. |
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I went back to the DR this Am to have my physical in preperation of the D&C. I stated to question him about could it be too early,etc. At first he hesitated like I was just rambling on & on. I told him that I knew the day I conceived was June 1 or 2. He looked at my chart & was said "oh I thought you were a little farther along. Lets bring you back in on Sunday for another U/S. I think you may be right & we might see the heartbeat by then" Can you belive what I am going through? I feel like I have entered the twilight zone. I have completed stoped bleeding. I am so nervous. Can you belive I could have had the D & C on Friday & there really is a healthy baby.................... |
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i am glad u r waiting i will be praying for u also i think u and the babe will be ok . when i started bleeding it didnt stop at all it just got worse so maybe that is a good sign for u . i really want to see someone have a baby after a t.r . instead of miscarriages so the rest of us can have hope . take it easy and rest as much as u can . |
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sharon how r u doin hope all is good . |
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I am hanging in there. I was feeling confident becuase i had stoped bleeding for a day but yesterday it started again. I had menstrual cramps last night. It is so hard not knowing for sure. I will go on Sunday AM for another internal ultra sound. I will be 6w 4 d. If the babys heart beat is still not there I am scheduled for DC on Monday. What a long weekend this will be!!! I have decided that this is the last time. It is so hard to go through this. I have 3 teenagers & I am thankful for that. I will be 38 next month. I remarried 5 years ago to a man i love more then anything else that is how all of this started. He has no kids. we'll see. |
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sorry to hear that the bleeding started again i really know how u feel i have been thru it five times already and i always say no more but i dont want to use birth control and i really hope that as long as i dont maybe one pregancy will stick. and the same goes for me, my three kids r grown the youngest is 18 as of last wed. and i started this when she was 11 because i remarried when she was 7 and he has one dd but we wanted one together, maybe it will happen for us as long as we have hope anything can happen ,i will be praying for u take care and try not to worry too much but i know its hard not to. anytime u need to talk drop me a line i have been where u r bye for now take care. oh by the way my name is shirlene and i live in arkansas and i am 39 so i wont have to try much longer. |
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I am very sorry and feel the pain you are going through. I hope your Dr.'s appointment goes better than mine went from the other day 6-28-06. My fingers are so soar from crossing them for over two hours, it sounds a little childish but that is how it works sometimes that you will do anything as long as you can see the positive result. |
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hi tracie ,this is shirlene i just read your post and wanted to say hi . i know u will be able to be a mother again your only 37 and i just had my miscarriage in march at the age of 39 and i am trying again . so u still have a few good years and better drs. where u live than here in ark. you have a lot of faith and hope and that uplifts me so keep in touch. bye for now |
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sharon how did the ultrasound go? let us know ok? i have been thinking about u ! i hope all is well |
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