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chynnadoll - October 21st, 2005 8:27 PM

I just happen to stumble upon this website and wow was I happy...Let me briefly explain my story I have 2 daughters 16 and 9 which are a blessing...But I have also had roughly about 20 misscarriages, I had my first daughter at the age of 16 no problems at all 6lbs 8ozs from the age of 20 on it was down hill...I would usually miscarry between 5 to 12 weeks, my youngest daughter was born at 26 1/2 weeks weighing 1lbs 13ozs she is a miracle, I had a still born at 5 1/2 months and also at 5 months....twice I made it to about 13-14 weeks but started bleeding so against all I believe I had 2 abortions scared I would misscarry...Needless to say we finally stopped trying my doctor insisted there was nothing wrong(he had been my doctor for 14 years) Over the years friends and family keep telling me to switch doctors finally after I misscarried in February 05 at 5 weeks I switched DOCTORS....I was told I had ANTICARDIOLIPIN ANTIBODY SYNDROME....that was the answer I had been looking for after 14 long years....I have been taking baby asprin,folic acid,prenatal pills and lovenox injections for the past 30 days so needless to say we are trying, I'm scared and I pray everyday I will just leave in Gods hands and see what happens....Hopefully my story can at least help 1 other person...I'm not sure how this site works but I will check in a few times a week to see if anyone has any questions....This site is God sent ....Thank You....Chyna :)

Mahogany Heart - October 21st, 2005 9:28 PM

Welcome chynnadoll,

I had my first child when I was sixteen also and in 2004 I had a Ectopic. We are trying again but I'm going to take time, prayer and faith. Chynnadoll keep your head up and Keep the faith.

Fortyfour - October 22nd, 2005 12:14 AM

It looks like you are on the right track now. Good luck with the next try.


silli_kitti - October 26th, 2005 12:50 PM

You have suffered far too much for one person. IF has got to be the most horrible hell I've ever experienced. Its also sickening to know that we put our trust and faith into our doctors, yet when they have no answers, they ignore the symptoms and tell us "it happens." I wish more of them would recognize their limitations and pass us on to more specialized professionals. 14 years and 20 miscarriages sounds like malpractise!

I'm glad to see you finally have some answers and I wish you much success moving forward.

Keep us posted!

chynnadoll - October 26th, 2005 8:21 PM

THANK YOU SO MUCH SILLI_KITTI, I THANK GOD I FINALLY LEFT THAT QUACK OF A DOCTOR I WAS GOING TO FOR 14 YEARS, IT SEEMS LIKE I'M ON THE RIGHT TRACK NOW, SO GOD WILLING SUN SHINING HOPEFULLY WE'LL BE PREGNANT BY OR BEFORE THE END OF THE YEAR...THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE SUPPORT :)

scared - December 22nd, 2005 4:54 PM

I to have been a victom,i misscarried @ 16 weeks. My water broke and my husband and i were scared. We had Specialist in and out of my hospital room giving us no hope but to try again later b/c i was young and still healthy. To this day there has never been a real reason as to why my baby girl only got to live 2 minutes of her prescious life. I thank God for all he has done, through my pain and tears I never question God; for I know he knows best.


jolynn - December 22nd, 2005 7:33 PM

hello and welcome this site will truely help u. there are wonderful people and tons of support on here. i to after 12 years of trying m/c at 7 weeks and scared to death to try the whole process again but i made a promise to myself that im gonna give it 1 more try in 2006 so dont give up on your dreams god will bless us all mommy hood take care

chynnadoll - January 1st, 2006 3:49 AM

Welcome ladies I know you will find all the support you are looking for here...The site was God sent to me! In referrence to to what scared and jolynn said I honestly feel that everything happens for a reason....good or bad I never question God either I know he sees the bigger picture and has great things in store for all of us for the new year 2006 will be our year...we have to call those things that be not as if they were...baby dust to all...and welcome! God Bless..

Lee - January 16th, 2006 11:35 PM

I just read all these comments, and I need to share my story. I am a mother of five God sent children, I've been married 3 times. My husband and I wanted to have a baby. God bless on New Years Eve '06 I got a visit from an angel. She touched me and told me to wakeup I was pregnant, and then she said again wakeup your gonna have a baby. I did not believe it was true. I went to cook and God spoke to me and said you have two pregnancy test on top of your closet go take one. I just had a period 12-16-05 and didn't think it would happen so fast. But BLESS GOD IT DID!!!! I took the first test and it came back pregnant and took four test all came back pos. God allowed me to carry that baby for five Glorious weeks. I found out my stepdaughter was pregnant and she wanted to have an abortion and wanted me to go with her! I told her I would not be part of taking a life. So she got mad and said my daddy will come and told her he would not. My husband got mad with me and stayed at his mother house for 3 days with his daughter. He was gonna take her on last saturday but the appointment got canceled. I miscarried on 01-15-06 my husband was not with me until 10min before I got discharged. He dropped me home and left. God woke me up a 3am and I called his mother's house and asked him to come home I needed him. He came we talked and he shared with me that his daughter did not go on saturday. I told him THANK GOD!! I told him that I needed to follow up with the doctor at 8:30 am on the miscarriage and I wanted hime to take me! He told me his daughter had an appt at the same time for the abortion. He came with me his wife to our appt. I thank GOD FOR ALL HE HAS DONE AND I'M NOT DEPRESS NOR DO I FEEL A GREAT LOSS. I love the LORD and I know he hears my cry. All I have to do is ask him for another baby and he is faith and just to do just what he said!!! All I have to do is DELIGHT MYSELF IN THE LORD AND HE SHALL GIVE ME THE DESIRES OF MY HEART!!! HE'LL NEVER LEAVE US NOR FORSAKE US. WHO EVER READS THIS YOU BE ENCOURAGE. GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH YOUR HEARTS DESIRES!! JUST HAVE FAITH AND BELIEVE!!!! LOVE YA!!!


chynnadoll - January 19th, 2006 7:22 PM

Lee, I totally agree with you, I love God and I always say the God sees the bigger picture, you have to pray and believe and not question God, Everything happens for a reason! We are all blessed, we woke up this morning! One of my favorite things to say is "GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME"...Take Care....China

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