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CHRISSY, Thanks fr your input and let us know what happens with the IUI thing. :)
So far I have not spoken to a reproductive med specialist, just my GP who organized the semen analysis. His view is that you put the numbers together so you start with 150 million sperms, of which 50 million are swimmers of which 5 million are in good shape ! - and that is generally considered 'enough' he says for the man to be 'basically potentially fertile' if there are no probs on the female's side. ... So his idea is to wait for tests on my gf before trying IUI or whatever. [see below on alcohol consumption.....]
Mind you -the same arithmetic would give you 6-9 million normal formed swimmers so......
I have a bit of a worry that IUI and even worse ICSI could increase chances of defective embryo simply because my understanding of normal fertilization is that the obstacles are there for a purpose - to weed out the bad sperm - so that if you reduce the obstacles in general then you increase the possiblity that a bad sperm would get through ! Hope there is some science which disproves that 'common sense' thought.
Also, I have read (ok on websites....) that Clomid has some effect of discouraging the poor lad Y chromosome sperm and therefore advantaging the generally stronger X chromos thus increasing the likelihood of female embryos / twins.......[ ok it's not PC to say it but I think most men want at least one son ....... (just being honest)..... ] ? Maybe when they are 'washing' the sperm prior to IUI they can also separate the Y from the X chromos ?? ;)
I don't see how a doctor can possibly say that a badly formed sperm fertilizing an egg doesn't increase the likelihood of an embryo or birth defect..... How can they know ? They can't go backwards from a baby with probs to its conception, and they can't deliberately experiment injecting badly formed sperm into eggs and then checking 9 months later as to how the neonate is !
Digressing for a mo, I must say I am impressed (jealous!) of your man's huge .....sperm count ! Does he have a sideline in porno movies ?? [just kidding] How long have you been trying for a conception anyway ? If there are no probs with you according to my doc's math he should be capable of getting you with child before too long - and you are still in your 20s so isn't it worth trying a full year the normal way ?
ALCOHOL !!!! I certainly think you should try the alcohol abstention thing. It is a pain, I know, but I have read quite a few articles which say that regular alcohol consumption does harm sperm production / morphology. Also there was an hour long programme on British TV a month ago on this very subject. They took at random an amateur football team - so basically mostly healthy-ish masculine men and measured their sperm parameters before and after a 3 (or was it 6) month abstention from alcohol and healthy eating programme. [Previously the men had basically subsisted, like most British men, on beer (large quantities thereof) and pizza.] About half of the men (from memory) showed a marked improvement in the quality of their sperm at the end of the experiment. Certainly that programme and the stuff I have read on the web has prompted me to abstain totally from drinking (and it is a sacrifice but I do want a boy and a girl soon!!! and I can always drink again once the 2nd one is on its way! ) . I have to wait another 6 weeks before it is worth doing the semen analysis again to see if 3 months' abstinence (from booze) has made a difference ..... But it can't help to try it can it ?
When working up to having a go at inseminating the ovum (! - excuse the Shakespearean turn of phrase -) should one first abstain from sex for 3, 4 , 5 or 6 days ? 3 seems to be the minimum advised....... some say that more than that is bad for the sperm, but some docs on some sites say the longer you abstain - up to a max of 6 days - the more you increase your chances by building up greater quantities of sperm w/o damaging their fertility parameters..... If I could find a consensus I would follow it.......... What have your docs told you and your horse ( sorry, hubby) ? :) RIV
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