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hello,
I am seeking advice as I am going through a difficult time, and am not sure I am receiving appropriate medical care in the developing country where I live.
I had a positive ovulation test on day 13 of my cycle and went to see my gynaecologist on day 19 of for a regular check up and I told him we were trying to conceive. He told me I was probably not pregnant as my endometrial lining was quite thin (8mm).
5 weeks after my last period I found out that I was indeed pregnant. My doctor said there was no point doing an u/s at this stage and scheduled me an appointment 2 weeks later.
However, the following week I started having serious cramping and spotting and went to see him. He did an u/s. The sac was very small (4mm sac and no embryo seen) and quite low. He told me I was miscarrying and scheduled another appointment one week later to make sure all pregnancy material had been evacuated.
Followed 4 days of painful cramping and one week of heavy bleeding. Not to mention the emotional hardship.
As I arrived yesterday at my appointment 1 week after the diagnosed miscarriage (still bleeding slightly), the doctor noticed during the u/s that the foetus was not only still there but had grown. It now measures 3 mm and the sac 8mm. It has been 8 weeks and 3 days since my last period. That seems awfully small, isn't it? He could hear a beat but said it wasn’t sure it was actually a heartbeat. It could also have been the sound of a vessel.
So he gave me progesterone 200mg twice a day for one week, and I am scheduled to go again in one week to see if it will have continued to grow.
Is it possible that an embryo that small would still be viable? Isn’t a miscarriage inevitable? Otherwise, with such abnormal growth in the early weeks, wouldn’t the baby have important abnormalities if the pregnancy were to continue?
I am very confused. I don’t want to be happy that I am still pregnant because I have been too disappointed before. But at the same time, I don’t to go through the emotional hardship again, it was hard enough.
Thanks so much in advance for your help and advice.
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