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Dear LuvMyDogs1978,
Thank you so much for the delightfully warm welcome to the chat area. I wish you peace of mind, blessings, health, safety and success in your pregnancy, as I do all the expectant mothers on this site. Logging in to get loving support is extremely important: I completely agree with you.
Keep in mind I have every right to share information just as you do. I (1) first and foremost am a mother who has walked in these shoes with people reassuring me how great and safe this drug was supposed to be - I was told the same things I see being said on this site(2) I have logged entries on this site encouraging everyone to know the facts and to make informed decisions and to be sure they are reading the material themselves and not assuming their doctors have read all the data - and I have provided specific information that is publicly available that is easy to find and read that isn't so sun-shiney. I am the voice of the person nobody wants to hear and I know it. I apologize that Lovenox use is controversial but the reality is that this drug isn't safe for pregnancy and it can hurt or help depending on the circumstances and how it is used. I am a proponent of using the drug with appropriate TESTING, such as the ENOX test, on weekly intervals. I am a propenent of alternative coagulation methods utilizing nattokinease, lumbrokinease, vitamin E, hawthorne and many other natural remedies that can be used under the guidance of trained physicians who practice holistic approaches to health, wellness and maternity. I am a proponent of being fully informed. I am a proponent of alternatives to Rx Anticoagulation in situations that merit alternatives and I'm pretty darned tired of brainwashed doctors who believe you either get Heparin, Lovenox or you miscarry again. That is not the full story and that is what doctors are trained to believe and I have learned from years of research that those aren't the only options for many of the women in this chatroom. Options I wish my doctors and I had known about.
(3) I have served as a researcher to on this matter (4) I have a child that I watched nearly die AFTER she was born from fetal exposure to this drug, needing transfusions, surgeries and being diagnosed with brain bleeds. I've spent her entire life span so far trying to rehabilitate her from the consequences. It's one thing to have a child you desperately want, I want that for every mother in this room. But imagine what your life is like when you have the child, he or she survives, but lives a significantly diminshed quality of life as a result of lifelong consequences of the toxicity of this drug. Imagine your life and your days forever devoted to a child who won't realize the benefits of a full, healthy, developmentally normal life because of this drug. It's one thing to change diapers for a year or two. It's another to face changing diapers indefinitely. Wondering if your kid will ever walk or talk normally.
I spend my days rehabilitating a child now that I prayed every day for and got. I am so glad and blessed I have my child because my child truly is a miracle. If I can spare another mother what my role in life is now... by giving her the facts, and if one mother makes a choice to enforce testing with her doctor, or enforce a lower dose or an earlier withdrawal, or opt for safe nutritional approaches to her medical condition... or a C-section with a specialist instead of a midwife if her condition warrants it... then I believe I can make a difference in how an expectant mother gauges her risk and how she makes her decisions based on more information.
If you are scared, maybe you should be, because fear makes people learn, research, and get all the information available and fear may just be what prevents another family from ending up like ours.
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